I believe if you save yourself till marriage that person that you marry will be even more happy with you knowing ur a virgina and that you could wait. This also means that your friends could possibly look up to you and girls/woman won't see you as one of the sex-craized men.
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Firstly, how would girls/women in general know how much sex I have or haven't had? I think that a person who brags to everyone that he's a virgin is not going to be received any better than a person who brags what a playa he is.
The good news is, if this person saves themselves 'til marriage, they are most likely to be wayyyy too old to reproduce. If that ain't natural selection, I don't know what is.
I must say that as a 31-year-old woman, finding out a man of similar age whom I was dating was a virgin would be immediately grounds for dumping. My theory is if he's that old and he hasn't had sex yet, there's a problem. Even if it just means he's a fundie, that's still a problem in my book.
For those of you who watch Family Guy, I'm reminded of a scene where Peter tells Meg something along the lines of "Remember when you found out your gynecologist never finished medical school?". Cutaway to a doctor's office where the doc is pulling on some gloves and saying "OK, Meg, let's have a look at that bergina..." Funny stuff..
But I'm scared there won't be any smart, good-looking, atheist, short female virgins left in my age group by the time I'm legal. And ready.
Or s/he's pissed off that you don't know what the heck you are doing. The wedding day and night is stressful enough without one of you bleeding on the sheets too.
We "girls/woman" know that most men are a bit sex-crazy, and they know that most women are too. It's what's keeping our species going, after all. One of the reasons why men might be more sex-crazy is that their biological investment is lower; just a few minutes per woman. For a woman it takes 9 months, so she's usually a bit more picky about who to choose.
If I discovered, on my wedding day, that my spouse was a virgin, - or a virgina -, I would be mightily pissed off and would demand to know just who I'd been fucking throughout the courtship and engagement.
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