Well, my "peak trans" wasn't any one thing that I can remember. I never really lied to myself about people being able to change sex, but I didn't and still don't see a problem with folks dressing how they want, being called what they want etc. Is it a little insulting as a woman, a female, that men and males use their distorted view of us to define us? Of course. But it's hardly new. I suppose if I could pinpoint one too far moment, it would be the first time I heard someone say if you recognise biological reality, you're a bigot. I just can't understand what is wrong with saying "yeah, I'm male but I want to be a woman so I'm going to live my life as if I was one". How is that insulting to TW? It's their reality.

I'm also very worried by their tendency to lie and fudge figures to support their victimhood.The thing is, TRAs are alienating ppl who would otherwise support them by being grossly misogynistic, bullying and unaccepting of reality. I support them being free to live their lives in the open. I support them having safe spaces of their own. But that's not what they want. They don't want a safe space; they want OUR safe space. Well I'm sorry, that is not on. And if they stopped being so damn selfish they'd see how unreasonable a request (DEMAND) it is. Wanting ppl with penises (obv MALES) in female-only spaces is just too far for me.