“I kind of do like the separateness of men and women in Muslim cultures.”
You want to be locked away as private property?
Well, no kink-shaming here, but it’s not for everyone.
“Think about how much better sex with your husband would be without porn,”
Just two virgins on the wedding night, each hoping the other knows what they’re doing. HA!
“without him getting hit on by women at the office,”
Most of the women at my office are there for the job and aren’t especially hitting on anyone. If your husband is telling you they’re hitting on him, he may have an active fantasy life.
“without him seeing sexier women every where he goes.. You are the only woman he sees.”
There are no sexier women than my wife. And i make this clear to her whenever i can. You might consider expressing this concern to your husband. He might be able to reassure you that HE sees no sexier women than you in a day.
“I think adulterers are stoned in certain areas in some of those countries, not sure.”
The women are stoned, yes. WOmen are locked away on the premise that men can’t help themselves.
“Well marriage in Europe is on the decline..People are not reproducing.”
This is a known artifact of a properous society. The happier you are, the less you feel like changing diapers.
“European civilization will most likely end in the next 100 years due to your immigration policies.”
It’ll change. All civilizations change.
“So in the long run, I foresee Europeans (unfortunately)as a bunch of people just having meaningless sex, while the Arab and Muslim cultures prevail.”
If you think non-reproductive sex is meaningless, why do you care if your husband sees women? As long as you get a baby every year, what difference does it make?
Also, i think porn is VITAL to the future of the Christain Community. You guys are afraid to talk about sex any more than the minimum necessary to schedule it. (“Hey. You awake?”) You don’t know what you want to do or want done to you. You don’t even know what the options are At least with porn, and a LOT of trust, you can point things out that you don’t have the words for. “Hit pause! THAT! I want THAT to happen!”
Otherwise you’ll all die as childless losers who think sex is a burden and marriage is a prison.
A friend of mine showed some particular porn to his wife. And before he could ask, ‘Can we try this, just once?’ she shouted, ‘Wait, that’s an OPTION!?!?’
