“As much as some of you are in denial, men want a virgin.”
I learned Tennis from someone who’d already knew how to play.
I learned golf from someone who already knew how to play.
Learned to drive stick, experienced teacher.
Learned to march in boot camp from experienced sailors.
Learned to serve on submarines from experienced sailors.
Learned to be an FTB in the Navy, several experienced sailors.
Learned to be an instructor,learned how to calibrate the OAG, learned the parts of a .45, learned to shoot, cook, tip, travel by bus/car/plane…
EVERYWHERE in my life the transfer of knowledge has been from the experienced party to the inexperienced.
Why in the name of an extended orgasm would I WANT someone who didn’t know what we were doing?
“Back when society actually functioned, women remained virgins until marriage.”
So, your measure of society’s functionality is the limitation of women’s options, I take it.
“Society was orderly - it worked.”
Did it? Or did society just refuse to see where it wasn’t working?
“Then people were hoodwinked into adopting degeneracy instead of morallity,”
I don’t think there was any hoodwinking at all.
Some people got tired of living to other people’s standards and did what they wanted, what made them happy. You’re just butthurt that no one asks your permission to live.
“but that same hardwired desire hasn't changed in men.”
I really don’t think it was a desire so much as a culturally-enshrined expectation. That’s gone.
“So, where does a man have to seek a decent virgin? Seems pretty obvious.”
There are many fine qualities my wife exhibits that drew me to her without hesitation. Any question of virginity was nowhere on my list of desires. Near as I can tell, the only men who want virgins are either
1) afraid of comparison to better lovers
2) afraid of cooties
OR,you’re a pedophile trying to argue that society has driven you to such a posture.
Either way, shut the fuck up and siddown.