Also....AGAIN....*sigh*....ELLIOT FRICKIN' WEALTHY PRETTYBOY RODGER!
Finally; "Rape Fantasy" does not mean "I want to be raped"! Rape fantasy involves and idealized "ravishing" involving a hot guy and a reluctant gal who may actually "want it" deep down.
REAL RAPE IS A VIOLENT ASSAULT THAT JUST SO HAPPENS TO INVOLVE SEX AS A WEAPON AND IS HORRIFYING EVEN IF THE PERP WERE A GORGEOUS MALE ABERCROMBIE & FITCH MODEL! Rape is about "power" (though in some cases, sexual attraction may be at play) and unlike a regular beating, it can REALLY mess up someone psychologically (due to the 'sex' factor).
Finally; Many folks....especial Feminists (including sex-positive ones)....think the 50 Shades series is absolutely STUPID!
AGAIN: It's the inside that counts! All the good looks in the world mean squat if you're absolutely repulsive as a person. That little jerkass, Rodger found that out the hard way.
As for why an ugly thing like Trump could get women, well; Some women do fit the "Stacy" stereotype and are attracted to money and power and....Trump wasn't ugly-looking when he was young....
....Here's your Dear Leader, ol' Mango Mussolini in the 1970's. Almost unrecognizable (apart from the hair). A young Ivanka would see this Manhattan Rich Boy and go "I DO!"
Also; While he has ALWAYS been a complete asshole, he was....in some accounts from others....relatively normal and his sexism wasn't as pronounced. He and Ivanka actually started out as a 'Business Power Couple' and roughly equals. He hired a woman as chief architect for Trump Tower when his Dad, Fred balked at it. It seems fame went to Donald's head and he let the evil consume him (Keep in mind that he has ALWAYS been a jerk who stiffed his workers, prevented Blacks from living in Trump apartment complexes and trashed the Bonwitt Teller building and it's famous Art Deco friezes to build his dumb tower).
If Henry Kissinger was just some dopey geezer living in a Boca Raton Over-50 Mobile Home park, he would NOT have been a "Kavorka Man" believe me!