i went to visit my son and he has two gay men living next door. they were having a "anniversary" party with relatives because the two men had been together 10 years and not only did the two men kiss one of theirs sisters is living with a man she has no intenten of marrying. they were drinking and sometimes cursing. they even had small children present and watching.
thankfully because of the wooden fence my grandchildren could not see
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Yes, because men in love, women who don't want to be shackled with marriage, and beer are of THE DEVIL.
"thankfully because of the wooden fence my grandchildren could not see "
But you know what happened at the other side of the fence because you propably paid more attention to the neighbours party than your family, am I right?
And maybe, just maybe, you are actually jealous of people who live the life the way they want it and *gasp* enjoy it?
One of the replies in that thread is:
"You seem to know a lot about a party you weren't invited to, especially with a fence in the way. Tell me, was it difficult to spy and look disinterested at the same time?"
I couldn't have said it better myself.
Your a grandmother and that's the level of your grammer and punctuation?
Was the party disturbing the peace? No, then it's none of your business. I think you were just jealous you weren't invited and they were having fun.
soooo, gay couples are a lot like straight couples
Um, how did you know they were kissing if there was a fence?.... pervert
[the two men had been together 10 years]
Jealous because they've been togheter longer than you and your husband?
Minus the gay couple that's a good description of Thanksgiving at my grandma's.
Well, I'm glad for them that their relatives are way more loving and open-minded than you are.
Story time: I am reminded of a Muslim woman who got mad because my wife and I gave each other a quick peck goodbye on our very own front stoop. She said that wasn't fit for her and her children to see. My wife then bent me over so far back that the ends of my hair touched the ground and kissed me like she was going off to war! Man, I wish we had more complainers around...
Methinks this woman's idea of cursing is words like hell, crap, damn, lord, and god.
'thankfully because of the wooden fence my grandchildren could not see'
But YOU did. What, eavesdropping for Jesus?
There are two ladies who live next door to me >>Homer Simpson whisper: I think they're GAAAY. Maybe from Lisbon.<< And they, too, have a solid wood fence that I can't see over. Who knows what they're up to over there?*
I even have to stand on the bottom board to talk to them over the fence.
* I mean who cares?
...they even had small children present and watching.
So...some children saw people expressing affection for each other. What's the problem here?
...one of theirs sisters is living with a man she has no intenten of marrying.
1. How would a small child know this unless someone like you told it to him?
2. Why would a small child care about this unless someone like you told him it was wrong?
3. What business is this of yours? I feel certain no one at the anniversary party gave a good God damn about your opinion.
...the two men had been together 10 years...
My wife and I have been married for 12 years. It sounds as if these two fruits have a stable and healthy relationship going for them.
When there's perfectly nice, normal people in this world, like that gay couple, why must I have fundies next door? Maybe your son and I can switch homes.
This may seem like an odd question, but what do fundies do on an anniversary then? This party seems pretty tame by just about anyone's standards.
Lastly, I do believe that a wooden fence is a good thing too, because one shouldn't be spying on their neighbors or for that matter even caring.
My gay relationship is about to enter into its 38th year. I suppose that makes it absolutely asbominable in Olivery's eyes!
Strange, though. The villagers in the small French village where we live want to throw a big party for us. They must all be hardened sinners, just like us. And the Maire (mayor) wants to attend an make a speech and convey his community's best wishes.
Bless them all!
It's things like this that make me think Europe is a tad more civilized and tolerant of all. I fear in America we would have been burnt at the stake long ago for daring to stay together for so long.
thankfully because of the wooden fence my grandchildren could not see
Then how the hell did you see it? Let me guess: you heard they were gay, got curious and spent the rest of your time at your son's house peeping in windows with binoculars and got all horny to make sure your precious grandchildren weren't going to be corrupted.
Congratulations, Xotan!
You're right, you would have had to deal with a lot of hateful shit if you had tried to maintain a long-term gay relationship here in the US. The fundies (christians in general) love to spout the belief that gay relationships are never long term, and if that were true in this country it would most certainly have to do with the way gays are viewed by our mostly christian society and the harassment they have to endure.
Unfortunately, the US is a place where the term 'gay bash' doesn't mean it's party time. I'm happy for you that you've found a more accepting place and that you're celebrating such a remarkable anniversary!
"one of theirs sisters is living with a man she has no intentent[sic] of marrying."
What is this - the 1950s? Just admit it, people you think are "living in sin" are absolutely fucking fascinating to you, you repressed ass. Grr! I cannot stand self-righteous breeders like this, using "think of teh chyuldrennn!!11" to hide their bigotry. Your grandchildren are going to grow up as sheltered, shallow, hateful and uneducated as you are.
Punctuation is essential for a good argument. You have neither.
10 years huh? And tell me Oliver; How many times have you been divorced now?
..and they say gays are responsible for the destruction of marriage, even though they havent been able to be married.
Thank you all who have expressed kind good wishes. They are greatly appreciated.
Like any couple, we have had our good and bad times, but worked things through.
It is amazing how quickly all those years have come and gone. The decent people of this small place, and their warmth so freely expressed, makes this place of retirement a haven of peace and contenment for our later years.
Happily we are both in good health and, insofar as anyone can, we look forward to many more years of happiness together. If the local gravestones are anything to judge by, we well could have another 30 years on the cards! LOL I believe that it is a by-law here that you cannot die before your 85th Birthday at the earliest! :-)
I hope that those celebrating their 10th anniversary are as blessed as we have been by good health and good fortune, and that they may continue together in happiness.
Wow. Seeing someone kiss another person of the same sex is disgusting, huh?
I guess mothers should never kiss their young daughters goodnight, then, since same-sex KISSING is so offensive.
@The L: Or God forbid fathers actually show affection to their sons. We can't have our boys grow up to be spineless pansies, can we? I cannot stand that type of thinking.
P.S. olivery2k, your neighbors' family life is none of your business. As long as they're not beating up their kids or partners, it's none of your concern.
Every Christmas the old gay couple who used to live in the apartment I now live in, have us over with their family and friends.
If the couple next door to your son are anything like these guys, I bet the food was awesome. You missed out on a good time.
they were having a "anniversary" party with relatives because the two men had been together 10 years and not only did the two men kiss one of theirs sisters is living with a man she has no intenten of marrying. they were drinking and sometimes cursing.
You might as well tell us what they where eating and wearing too. From the sound of it, you don't know how to mind your own business.
Just looked at this person's other posts there, one of which is asking if Malcolm McDowell is circumcised.
Flesh-crawlingly creepy person.
Well, to be fair, they shouldn't have been acting intimate around small children, heterosexual or homosexual.
@Xotan
I know what you mean: even people in the small villages in France have a sophistication and insoucience that many in the UK haven't got.
Our elderly (75, 70 yo at the time) neighbours welcomed us the the village when we moved into the maison secondaire 10 years ago. They've met many of our gay friends and ask after them: we have drinks with them at least twice during any of our stays. The wife refers to herself as our "maman vendeene", and the husband ensures that everything is secure when we're away.
These people are unlikely to have ever knowingly met gay people in their lives before. They've barely been 40 miles from the village in their lives, and yet they made us welcome, the village is friendly to us, and we feel more comfortable there than in many places in the UK.
(I've gone on a bit so pardon my enthusiasm)
It's a pity that people in the UK and US can't take the same view about where their business starts and ends
I see that no one has addressed the second issue of fornication she raised,("theirs sisters is living with a man she has no intenten of marrying") but has spent ages, battering the beliefs and self esteem of the grandmother.
Chid asks: Where did I come from mum and dad? Parents reply: together we made you.
Allow children to be children and parents time to explain to there children the different sexual orientation in this world, in a way that would not be confusing, especially to young kids. You all most admit Gay relations are a controversial world issue. It is not easy to fully explain this to young children. Give them time to grow, we dont want to confuse them.
How much you want to bet Oliver's son is perfectly happy with his neighbors?
Also, oliver, time to lose the y2k. It's been eight years and the world hasn't ended yet.
@Cheryl:
it's none of her business. Good neighbours don't interfere in neighbours lives. These guys, the sister, and everyone at the party were NONE OF HER BUSINESS. It's omly her business if they fornicate in front of her family! How does she know the particular details of the sister's personal arrangement? And how is that of any interest to her grandchildren? If you're speaking of the children at the party, then surely that's their parent's affair, no-one else's.
It comes back to the point of sticky-beaking and judging....
which also covers the "gay" issue.
"Oh, teh horror! Gay people acting just like straight people do! Thank God my grandchildren didn't see, or they'd think that gays are just normal people!"
I hope you are not educating those poor children, with that appalling grammar and spelling.
My brother is living with a woman he apparently has no intention of marrying. They even have children present and watching*. So what?
* Watching the living together, not anything relating to how they were created, of course.
Awww, I bet you're just peeved because they didn't invite you! No?
Well then, if you weren't invited it's none of your business what happens next door. Keep your nose out of that crack in the fence, and stop trying to figure out who kissed whom.
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