It just donned on me how pathetic it is to be a 23 year old virgin
I'm not quite at the oldcel stage yet but I'm past the point of no return, I'm older than Elliot Rodger was when he died. Almost everyone has had sex at one point or another, not being able to get laid when you're past highschool and into your twenties means you are a huge failure. Even if I were to wake up one day and become white, then looksmax to Chadlite level, people would laugh at me if they found out I was a virgin. It's shameful to be a virgin at 17-18, it's even worse when your past that age.
I pray that Blackops2cel gives me strength so that I don't rope tonight.
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I am an almost 25 year old virgin, and I do not feel the slightest bit pathetic or a failure, nor did I when I was 23. Indeed, on the contrary, I have already accomplished many things to be proud of in this quarter century. Yes, I would be really happy if "found the woman of my life" were among them, but, well, that's something worth the patience.
Oh, please. I lost my virginity about two weeks before my 30th birthday, and she thought it was sweet that she was my first. Being a virgin that long was a little frustrating, but I knew it was mostly my own fault.
My wife and I will be married 36 years this July, by the way.
PS: it's "dawned" not "donned."
You know, there's more to life than getting your dick wet. I actually know a couple of guys who are my age (47) and have never had girlfriends, and for all I know are still virgins. Yet they appear to be happy in life.
30+ years old virgin here.
Unless the topic of conversation turns toward my sex life, the fact that I'm a virgin doesn't effect my life at all, period.
The problem with incels is that they think everything revolves around sex.
Dude, I'm a 26 year old virgin. But you don't see me whining about it. Does it suck? Maybe, but it certainly does not make me feel pathetic or a failure (other things do that well enough).
Seriously, the only time I ever felt even remotely ashamed to be a virgin was back in high school, when a classmate off-handedly mentioned that he considers dying a virgin the worst way to go. Of course, now I'm far to mature to let something that stupid bother me.
Besides, even if I wasn't so very shy and afraid of contact and all that, and a lot hornier, I still wouldn't be so desperate to get laid. Call me a hopeless romantic, but I'd rather have my first time be really special, with someone I have a bond with and can trust.
Sir Isaac Newton lived to 84 years: he died a virgin .
If he had greater priorities in his life, what's your excuse OP?!
"donned"? Do you mean "dawned"?
You are pretty far from alone in being a 23-year-old virgin. The most pathetic thing about you, is that you focus you're whole existence of this tiny fact. There are so many other things in life; get on with those, and someone might find you interesting. Going on whining about being pathetic will not endear you to anyone.
E.R. was a pretty-rich-entitled-boy with psychological problems he refused to take care of. Who cares about that little whiny loser?
You're still more or less a child; the brain isn't fully mature until after age 25. Teenagers have a tendency of seeing everything in black or white, that you might not have grown out of yet. Most of life is in different shades of gray, and it's never too late to do, well, anything, until you're dead.
Chad is all in your head, dolt. Most people are average-looking, and different people find different things attractive.
It's perfectly normal to be a virgin at 17-18. In many countries, it's illegal to have sex with anyone younger than 16.
@moose
It's not the same thing. Newton was as obsessed with solving math
puzzles as incels are with sex, so he didn't put any effort into sex, and didn't care.
He was as enraged about not finding the equation for gravity as
incels are about foids, at least until he found it.
The only reason that you think that everybody else has sex when still of high school age is that (1) most people have sex on the mind during puberty, and (2) a lot of them lie outright, and the rest exaggerate.
Get another hobby. It'll pass the time until you too join the normies.
It just donned on me
You put it on?
Lost my virginity at 26. Too busy trying to get good grades in high school and college, and trying to get a career, to worry about that much. This comes to a surprise to people who know me as being bisexual and a bit slutty. It's fun, but other things have always been more important.
When will it dawn on you that the only people who care about your virginity (as opposed to people who point out you're talking about what women desire sexually with less than no experience to back it up) are the people in your echo chamber who openly state that they want everyone else to be as miserable as they are and take steps to fuck with people that try to empathize with them?
For fuck's sake even a movie where it takes the idea of a 40 year old virgin as it's entire comedic premise ends with the realization he was making much more of a deal of it than it ever actually was. Even fiction is more grounded in reality than you.
Pull yourself together man. I was considered a wimp all through secondary school. Girls used to dare each other to pretend to ask me out for a joke based on the whole "Eww fancy being with that geek" thing. I was a virgin at your age, but I went through a late development and filled out, plus learning to be more confident.
I've since had a number of relationships, both sexual and just friendly with various women and am now happily married with a child.
There is no point of no return, you have a job? You have a position in society however ordinary? Okay, so you have reason to meet people, talk to people, develop social skills beyond whining on the internet. Things can still turn around.
It won't happen overnight, but it will happen. I was 18, and at the time, I thought that was late. So don't despair...
Otherwise there is another option, and I'm sure those ladies would be happy to oblige you, for a fee.
I was being made fun of for being a virgin at age 16. Now it's not that I can't have sex, it'd be really easy to- I've went on dating websites and that's all people want to do on the first date- to hook up. It's not worth it though would you rather have HIV? Seeking a one and only lifelong partner is the best route anyway. Is it that you can't find a relationship?
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