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[From "What it really means when she says "I shouldn't do this" on the first date"]

Introduction
So you did something right and she wants to fuck you on the first date - congratulations - but at the last minute, her mouth orifice utters I shouldn't do this / I'm not that type of girl / Any other variation of the fact.

What?!
Don't worry, these are famous forms of last minute resistance that let's be honest, would probably only disarm a blue pill guy who wouldn't even manage to get the girl in the first place. Still, don't get cocky just yet. If you're getting I shouldn't do this then it probably means you're sending at the very least some provider vibe or, if you're "lucky", she's just playing it safe.

Just playing it safe?
Yes, this is what I call the slut powerplay. She gets to be a whore while giving off the unicorn vibe in case later you turn out to be provider material. It's the best of both worlds for her and the perfect move of a master manipulator.

So how do I check for this?
Well, is she fucking you on the first date? Actions, not words, gentlemen. That's why you should always "push" for the fuck - agree & amplify, push/pull, gauge, escalate - no matter what. She does her little tests; do your own as well.

If in the end she doesn't fuck you, one of the following occurred:
• She wasn't sexually attracted to you in the first place, which means you failed to apply the correct seduction techniques or don't have enough SMV.
You need to study more and apply them more often, or increase your SMV;
• She's gotten a provider vibe, which means she thinks she can extract value from you without spreading her legs. This falls back on point no. 1;
• She's actually not a slut (yet). Very rare. She may even never become one. I'm kidding. Enjoy while it lasts.

Conclusion
I shouldn't do this is a famous slut powerplay. She's playing it safe in case in the future she wants to lock you down, so that she has plausible deniability. Don't fall for this shit. As always: check her actions, not her words.

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