I quite like the word 'blackpill' as the titular philosophy is comparable to an actual pill - it might be bitter or difficult to swallow, (as most truths are) but it is necessary.

When someone takes a pill, it's usually because they have no other choice. I mean, it's not like anyone wakes up in the morning and enthusiastically shouts "yay, time for medication!" and it's the same way here. We all used to be somewhat naive and idealistic when we were younger, we believed our parents when they told us that there is someone out there for us and all the movies that depicted an outcast finding love at the end; it's all we knew at the time. But as time went on, society came along and beat those beliefs out of us. And because of that constant disappointment, we had no choice but to accept that looks are all that matter.

So if anyone is to blame for us adopting the blackpill, it's society. (especially females) They molded a bunch of boys who just wanted to be loved into empty shells without a trace of hope.