Does it occur to guys with non virgin gfs that their gf ACTUALLY had another guy's dick in her mouth?
The word sex is becoming so common it is kind of losing its power. When people mention they "have sex", I just think to my self that they did something called "sex". I don't usually picture them having sex because people talk about sex as if it's something as casual as eating or sleeping. I often forget that sex involves at minimum a woman putting a guy's cock in her cunt, and usually also involves things like the woman slobbering and gagging on the guy's cock, and then getting cum blasted on her face and then the guy slaps his cock all over her face to get the last remaining drops out.
It's kind of like the word "gay" now. When you think "gay guy", you just imagine some guy in a fashionable outfit that talks with a lisp and waves a rainbow flag. You often forget what the essence of being gay is, which is to ram your cock up another guy's hairy anus, into his intestines, and get literal shit all over your dick.
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Ignoring the blatant homophobia, let's get down to what Incel4Life gets superficially correct: If you look at it objectively, sex of any kind is pretty gross. Normally you don't want to mess with other people's bodily fluids or effluvia because it's potentially hazardous to one's health, so there are instincts to prevent that. At the same time, most people also have a sex drive and some sort of attraction instinct which can sometimes override that, plus the promise of physical (and sometimes mental) pleasure - there has to be, otherwise humans would never breed and go extinct.
Sour grapeing (is that a term?) is an attempt to focus solely on the negative aspects (real or imaginary) in order to override desire, so to lessen the pain of having that desire unfulfilled. Sometimes it works, but only over the short run. In the long run, repeated attempts only intensify the desire, sort of like not thinking about a pink elephant. (If you've never heard of that, try it. If you're like most people, it will backfire pretty badly.) You will become more obsessed with sex than ever, while at the same time hating yourself for desiring something so revolting.
@Tolpuddle Martyr:
It's not that it doesn't occur to people. It's that they don't care. Is that so hard a concept? Hell, if they have experience, they may actually be good at it, rather than fumbling about or trying poorly to emulate porn.
Just because a woman had sex with someone before she met you doesn't mean she's defiled and ruined for life. It actually means she's more experienced in bed and likely to be a lot more fun.
You often forget what the essence of being gay is, which is to ram your cock up another guy's hairy anus, into his intestines, and get literal shit all over your dick.
It's quite telling that this is what you think of when you think about gay men. I really think that someone has to be totally closeted when they always describe gay sex in graphic detail like this.
Say it with me manbabies; porn does not reflect reality. There may be some ladies who are down for stuff like that, and more power to them if they are and it doesn't make them "degenerates", but there are just as many who are into vanilla sex too.
And there are gay men who are bottoms.
>Why the fuck do you strange little men fetishize that whole purity in virginity thing so much if you loathe it in yourselves?
Because they don't women to know that they're inexperienced and completely inept in bed.
And I do think this guy might be closeted. He talks about penises far more than he does about the female anatomy. It isn't the vagina itself that grosses him out, but the other dicks that have been in there. That seems telling. It reminds me of the romance novel Mr. Garrison wrote to prove to everybody that he was straight....
Has it occurred to you that most non incel guys don't care? After all, an experienced partner is more fun than dealing with an inexperienced and nervous one. The sex talk I've overheard from (sane) guys suggests that dealing with virgin girls makes them a a bit nervous.
The essence of being gay is being romantically and sexually attracted to members of you own sex. that is all.
>The sex talk I've overheard from (sane) guys suggests that dealing with virgin girls makes them a a bit nervous.
Not that the opportunity is ever going to present itself now that I'm rapidly approaching middle age but I've never been with a woman who's a virgin and based on everything I've heard about the bleeding and pain, plus few women I know telling me that their first times were painful, I think I'd be as nervous as she was.
Though, apparently the whole "painful first time" thing varies. If you take your time and make sure she's relaxed, you should be OK. Plus, most women's hymens are long gone by the time they have sex for the first time.
I like to think I have foreplay down to a fine art so if I ever meet a woman who is a virgin and she decides to make her, her first, I think I'd be OK.
Possibly? And men with enough emotional fortitude not to let the idea get to them) are the ones worth having.
P.S: you're quite into that blowjob fantasy, aren't you?
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