Im sorry, but i know several rape victims who now hate almost all men. I know many crime victims who have become racist towards the people who attacked them. people are not all saints like you. People WILL associate negative attributes to groups.
So you're saying that being rejected is equal to being raped, or being the victim of serious crime?
Are you made of human parts?
Anyway, since we both have personal anecdotes I'd suggest finding a few citations for your claim.
First off i cant speak for them, but i HAVE been diagnosed by a Psychologist with Social Anxiety Disorder; NOTHING ELSE, and i do consider myself Love-shy even though this is the first i have seen of that site. I think their description on thier home page describes me well, so naturally im going to be more sympathetic to them, than to a bunch of people here who seem to think that being unable to approach a woman automatically makes you a creep...and you just have to suck it up and be content living in perpetual lonliness.
I have GAD to the extent that I'm on several medications. It stems from an extreme phobia that caused me to lose several jobs. I really can sympathise with your issues, and with those of the few genuine LS posters. I understand that things which come easily to most can be intensely difficult to some -- I live with a phobia that most people find hilarious.
However, you're deliberately misunderstanding me and the other posters. Being unable to approach a woman does not make you a creep, hun. Saying you treat women with respect, then gleefully announcing that someday a mass-murderer will gun down 'a THOUSAND of you bitches' makes you a creep. Saying that a woman turning down a date with a man is as serious as rape (i.e. Coby or whatever his name is) makes you a creep. Rejoicing in a young woman's death MAKES YOU A CREEP.
We really can't state it any clearer than that. I get that you feel attacked because you're LS, but these guys don't have your disorder. It's NPD or just plain psychopathy. They have such an extreme lack of empathy that the people here at FSTDT see absolutely no reason to give them leeway.
Do you even have any idea how insecure SAD makes a person? ow awkward it can be especially if you already get nervous around women? Are you not aware it makes you look like you have no confidence (and often people with SAD like me dont), which is a massive turn off to women? I doubt it, especially as a bisexual; you can get what ever the hell you want.
Wow, you're so wrong it's kind of hilarious XD Lack of confidence isn't always a turn-off, and I only WISH that being a bisexual got me whatever I wanted. I haven't been in a relationship for four years, partly because I have issues that would put perpetual singledom to shame, and partly because I have these insanely particular criteria that basically shoot me in the foot.
Stop making snap judgements about people. LS guys are not all wonderful and bi chicks are not all lucky sluts.
Also you do realize its possible to treat women with respect yet hate them and not show it right? Women may be good at reading signs, but they are NOT mind readers.And finally, while im not justifying his statment (which BTW does not specifically make a threat), who does it hurt to spew insults and FANTASIZE, as long as they dont act on it? Especially on a website of like minded people? You dont have to go to that website if you dont want to.
Two words: body language. Then there's tone of voice. Eye contact. You know the old "only 10% of language is verbal" thing, right? Unless these guys are Oscar nominees, chances are good that their deep-seated and vicious hatred of women is coming out without them even saying anything. You ever figure out that someone doesn't like you even when they're being perfectly polite? Everybody does. I'm not saying the woman gets a metaphorical lightbulb and goes "ah! This man is a raging misogynist!" but it's perfectly likely that they get a weird vibe and don't want to hang around.
And lol! YOU don't have to come HERE, yet here you are. It's funny, amirite? When somebody is saying shit that really pisses you off, even in the privacy of their own forum, you want to call them out on it.
WELL GEE THERE MAY BE A PARALLEL
Its a US based website, and unlike Europe we allow freedom of speech for EVERYONE.Sorry you cant get over that.
1) Lmao! Uh, sweetie? Europe has that too ;D
2) If we were saying that this should be classed as a crime, or using it as a reason to protest freedom of speech, what you're saying would be relevant. Big surprise: We aren't!
3) Freedom of speech? It works both ways, sugar. We're free to mock and taunt these bastards, which is precisely what this site is designed to do.
Sorry you can't get over that.
And yes i do resent women, one would even say hate them, but you know what? I keep it to my self, and i get along well with the women i work with.I just secretly hate thier guts because woman kind on a whole has never even given me a chance.Id never go violent,and i dont share this guys vision of taking out a thousand bitches, but that doesnt mean i dont have the right to rant with like minded people, just because its "an unfair generalization" lots of guys over there including mike it seems and me, have simply "given up"...since one has come to the conclusion their situation is hopless and they will never be sucessful with women, who can hating them make it any worse? Answer me that?
So let me get this straight: You can't approach women because of your SAD, and this is now THEIR fault? But you don't see what's wrong with that.
Look, you and your misogynist pals can rant until the cows come home. And then you can rant at the cows. But as long as you're fundamentalist assholes, you'll be quoted on FSTDT, and we will mock you.
Please, get this through your incredibly dense noggin: No one's threatening your right to be a dicksneeze, alone or in company. Us laughing at you does not constitute a breach of your rights. However, this is the Wild Wild Interwebz, and what you say can and will be taken down so that everyone here can sneer at you.
Aw, it hurts your feelings? Too bad ^_^
I would just take what this guy is saying with a grain of salt...many people get angry and wish violence on others; FEW act on those wishes.
Why don't you try looking over FSTDT a little bit? People who get angry and wish violence on others with no good reason are the ones we quote. Take it with a grain of salt? Why? That's not nearly as much fun.
Incidentally, for the bazillionth time, you've stayed silent on the topic of the Czech LS poster who went to prison for plotting the murder of a woman.
At least YOU won't be in the gene pool, either.