Being owned, and being treated like his possession, isn’t horrible, it’s wonderful. It bears repeating that this makes a woman feel safe, loved, and hot as a cat in heat for her man.
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As much as a cat can be "owned" I suppose. What is it with fundies and bad analogies.
And love is slavery, YAY!
Is it any wonder why divorces are so high among fundies.
Let's get together some time and see who's happier-you who spends 24/7 cooking for, cleaning up after and laying on your back for some man who only cares about what you do for him; or me, who answers to no man except the one who signs off on my payroll, (and he usually leaves us alone as long as we're getting our stuff done), then has the remaining 128 hours of the week to myself to do as I please.
I'm guessing that "Mary" is really a man in disguise. My wife's sister is getting out of a years-long emotionally abusive relationship where she was basically treated like a maid, cook, & nanny, and on top of that was expected to perform sex on demand. She didn't feel safe or loved, and the thought of sex with her husband repulsed her.
Wow. There's submission to Jesus, and then there's submission to Jesus.
This is less fundie, and more Fifty Shades of Grey.
Okay. It's kinky and I'm not sure why you feel the need to share it with the world, but if this is what gets you off, cool. Just as long as nobody's getting hurt, go for it. Just make sure you have a good safety word.
Funny that, being so wonderful, men consider it as an abomination, you know, to be "possesed". Sorry lady, if it doesn't work for them, it doesn't work. Period.
"Being owned, and being treated like his possession, isn’t horrible, it’s wonderful. It bears repeating that this makes a slave feel safe, loved, and hot as a cat in heat for her master."
Fixed... and too easily.
Honey, BDSM is not a topic for a self-help book.
@Broton of Loch Ness:
"If it's a principle to live your whole lives by, then... nope. Fail."
Well, no. There's a subgroup of BDSM people that like 24-7 stuff (which is mostly about dominance and submissiveness in even the smaller details of life), that's just as legitimate a lifestyle between consenting adults as any other.
Once again, we have a fundie attempting to make the incredibly incorrect case that emotionally abusive relationships should be the norm. I cannot even fathom how much this disgusts me.
I can't believe how many times I've had to state this, and I imagine that as long as these quotes keep coming in, I'll have to keep saying it, but here it goes:
Relationships are a two-way street. Both parties have a little give, and a little take. When one party's doing all the taking, though, that's when it stops being okay and becomes abusive. If the partners are not equal, then the relationship is not working.
Sounds like a personal sexual kink, not a model to be projected onto all of society. I mean, if you're consenting to be "owned" by your husband and you set limits for it, etc, then good for you, not my problem... but if you believe that all women should be "owned" and enjoy it, and that all husbands have the right to own their wives, then you're just advocating for abuse.
Topping from the bottom, I see. Don't force your expectations on others, including tops. Thanks.
@ Farpdarkly and others
It's not SM. It's a caricature of SM. It's what Stephenie Meyer is to Bram Stocker: a mentally-impoverished sentimentally hollow fap dream.
Not taking into account how you are basically an insult to the equal rights for Women cause that has fought for so long (Emmeline Pankhurst and all that jazz), as a result of what you're saying here:
"Being owned, and being treated like his possession, isn’t horrible, it’s wonderful."
...list! what is yon sound in the distance? Why, it's that generated by bones hitting wood as the corpse of local hero William Wilberforce; politician, social reformer, philanthropist, [b]anti-slavery campaigner - and ultimately [i]abolitionist[/i][/b] - as well as [i]devout[/i] Christian, revolves at ever-increasing speeds.
Fuck me, at least those involved in BDSM have something called a Safeword ! And morally , that's the difference ; certainly between those whom you would regard as 'Sinners', and you .
Being owned, and being treated like his possession....
MARY! YOU ARE NOT A TOASTER!
Not a lamp, either....
...or a chair...AA battery...pair of shoes....a sandwich...
@#1549082
Or Klingons. The female hits/scratches/bites her intended paramour, as well as throws things about.
...whilst the male recites love poetry, and dodges !
And that's how they (especially he ) prefer(s) it. A Klingon male cannot consider their mating to be successful unless he emerges with broken ribs, bruises & wounds, nay, a ruptured organ! >_< X3
[/nerd]
...now, why am I imagining SpukiKitty as a Ctarl-Ctarl, a la Aisha Clan-Clan in "Outlaw Star"...?! They can be pretty savage (especially that way!) when they want to be! =^_^= X3
Moral: Cats are Awesome .
--EDIT--
@SpukiKitty
Darth Kitteh has Cheezburgers. =^_^= :3
Y'know, I'm perfectly cool with the dom/sub BDSM thing.
But when one thinks everyone else should be forced to adopt one's personal fetishes & lifestyle choices, it becomes a problem. A problem in serious need of psychoanalysis, in this case, as I'm sure Sunshine Mary is actually promoting ABUSIVE relationships as the ideal.
It's fine to have a kink as long as it's consensual, but don't pretend it's biblical. It's a kink Sunshine. Most Christian women don't want to be owned by their husbands and most husbands don't want to own their wives.
And, before you start spreading your false gospel of bdsm remember that what's sexy to you and your man would be considered slavery by others.
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