Even women don't know what they want. So don't bother trying to figure it out. Women often say they want this or that, but when you give it to them, they discover they did not want that. You can never trust a woman when she tells you what she thinks she wants.

Part of the problem is that extremely harmful cultural and societal ideologies like feminism, confuse women and try to convince women to think they want something that they do not actually want, like power in a relationship, submissive men, overly "sensitive" men, so-called "equality" in a male-dominated workplace, or to be showered with meaningless gifts. Women don't really want these things, but feminism indoctrinates women from an early age telling them that they should want these things.

This in turn results in women pursuing things they do not really want because society has taught them that it is what they should want, and as a result it causes them to be unhappy once they get those things, and confused as to why they are so unhappy in life when they followed their feminist indoctrination like a good little sheep.