[ Can men and women be just friends? ]

When it is all said and done...NO, there is always a possibility for me to secretly fall for him. I am scared that I could develop feelings, that is why when I was married...I willingly gave up ALL of my guy friends...

Any male or female who will not give up their opposite sex friends...probably is not worth marrying...

and will become a cheater..cheater..pu$$y or pecker eater

In all honesty...my guy friends...I have been attracted to at some point in my life...It may have just been a tiny feeling, yet it was there...I am not gonna lie...I LUV MALE attention...well, most of it..not that crap where we are sitting at the redlight...and goofballZ roll down the window, and gauk @ gurlZ...how lame! Also, I don't like being hit on @ the grocery store & gym.......

I think it is only natural to develop feelings for a guy friend you spend A LOT of time with...

However, I must admit...the guys I went to school with K-12...it would almost be a little too close for comfort. I am not sure that I could actually like these guys. However, I do not "hang out" with them.

Of course, this is my opinion...and I have been out of the dating scene around 7 years.

As I have stated before, I gave up all of my guy friends when I married...Why did I need 50 million guy friends...when I married my best guy friend? THERE IS NO LOGICAL REASONING FOR IT!!! However, my chickeeZ' have been with me through it all...and we will go through it all for life!

I just feel like saying it again...if I am in a committed relationship...what is the freaking point of having opposite seX friends?

I think if I am just going out on a date with someone...this is a bit different...not until one becomes taken...should the open door policy becum the closed door policy...

I have been cheated on in my marriage...why would I wanna go through that again...or make someone have to eXperience the pain...

SELFISH PEOPLE WILL KEEP THEIR OPPOSITE SEX FRIENDS...AND FIGHT TOOTH AND NAIL DEFENDING THEIR OPPOSITE SEX FRIENDS....THIS IS HOW YOU CAN TELL IF THEY ARE TRULY COMMITTED TO THE RELATIONSHIP OR NOT....