Anonymous #fundie

Anonymous #fundie rhrealitycheck.org

I love MY CHILDREN--- well lovebaz--- I will just burst your bubble---they were not the fruit of your womb, therefore YOU are not their mother.They will be concious all their lives of the amputee syndrom, MISSIMG THEIR REAL MUM,this will be part of each developmental stage of the psyche, and it has tsunami effects during teen years.

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Adoption is the rape of the soul, and education effective education, throughout the western world, coming from the FORGOTTEN MOTHERS OF LOSS TO ADOPTION, and the adoptees of this world, speaking with righteous authority,and validated by academic research from the worlds top psychologists in adoption.Adoption should be banished to the annals of history,like Lincoln did with slavery. Every child born into this world is a GIFT FROM GOD,and a gift to the nation born into, and a gift to the community, and A LIVING TREASURE TO THE NATURAL FAMILY, chosen of God. Psalm 139.

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old comment by GigaGuess

...they were not the fruit of your womb, therefore YOU are not their mother.

On behalf of anyone who has had a step parent or was adopted, I invite you to fuck yourself with a blazing cactus.

So I ask you...are you pro-choice, then? Because pro-life means you're throwing more onto the adoption system. Not to mention, what about the children that lose their parents to death? Sure, in some cases, the grandparents or other relatives can pick up the slack, but even in those cases, it's not their real "Mum." You speak of an idyllic reality, where the moment a woman gives birth, she becomes June fucking Cleaver, the child never wants for anything, no one dies before their time, and everything is perfectly hunky dory. In other words you need to pull your head out of your ass and get a reality check.

old comment by Equalist

This is my response on that site to this particular bag of shit:
Not their mother...
I couldn't even get past the first line of this comment without feeling the need to vomit. An adoptive parent is a parent to that child, regardless of what you may think. "Adoption is the rape of the soul" is a sick way to think. What adoption is, is the bringing together of a loving family who desperately wants a child, and a child in need of that loving family. And no, I'm not speaking from the point of view of an adoptive mother. I am speaking from the point of view of a mother who almost nine years ago now gave a beautiful little boy to just such a loving family. It was the most heartbreaking thing I have ever done, and the most beautiful. Yes, another woman tucks my son in at night. She kisses his boo boos, helps him with his homework, and she IS his mother, and I am his birthmother, and nothing will change that. If the chance were given to me tomorrow to take him back from that family, I would rather die than do such a thing to him. His mother is the woman he's grown up with, and I or anyone else have no right to deny them that in any way.
This isn't even addressing the children lost in the system, the ones who's parents care more for themselves than the children they produce, or the children of parents who have died. If adoption is so wrong, are these children to live out their lives in abandonment, rather than being allowed to go to the loving arms that would gladly welcome them? You are willing and able to raise your own children. Well goodie for you, you can pick up your cookie on the way out and pat yourself on the back, but don't you dare speak ill of those who have enough love in their hearts not to care who's loins THEIR children came from.
Adoption takes two kinds of extrordinary people. Those who love their children enough to give them the best lives possible, even if it means handing them over to someone else to raise, and those who are willing to raise the children of another with as much love, and as much devotion as if that child had come from their own bodies. Obviously, you are neither of these extraordinary types of people.

Submitted by Equalist on December 17, 2008 - 6:34pm.

Followed by her response back to me:

WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE,YOUR HIS MOTHER.
Not only are TOTALLY IGNORANT TO WHAT YOUR SON IS SUFFERING RIGHT NOW. YOU ARE BURYING YOUR HEAD DEEPER IN THE SAND LIKE THE PROVERBIAL OSTRICH.And you have been drawn HOOK LINE AND SINKER,by the ADOPTION MACHINARY PROPAGANDA,you have all the terminology and all the hallmarks. While your little son is at the second stage of adoption trauma,fast approaching the tsunami trauma the teen years, there are three traumas he will suffer, then fracture of his psyche, finally fragmentation of his psyche, and you will be beside yourself with unconsoliable grief,and he will to, if you ever have a reunion, his question to you will be, with all the knowledge available to you,at the time of my adoption, about how my psychological development would be so badly seared by adoption seperation grief and loss, how I missed YOU all my life, although I had adopters that nurtured me, YOU WERE THE MOTHER GOD CHOSE, and I was the fruit of your womb, therefore in the eyes of God, YOU ARE THE NATURAL MOTHER OF YOUR SON, he is adopted into a host family, that will love and care for him and nurture him, but THE FACT REMAINS, YOU ARE HIS MOTHER TILL THE LAST BREATH LEAVES YOUR BODY, and you must do all in your power to prepare yourself for that day, I suggest you educate yourself by logging onto ADOPTEES TELLING IT AS IT IS,AND HOW ADOPTION IMPACTED ALL THEIR LIVES.www.stephenfitzpatrick.com (Harpist)there you will read the true outcome of adoption and the impact on this brilliant young mans life dayin and dayout, you must take time to read every thread he has written.Finally to help you on your journey of educating yourself I suggest you log onto www.babyscoopera.com and www.originsau.com you will hear on these sights from mothers and their seperated children.and finally www.adoptioncrossroads.org.Marah66

Submitted by Anonymous on December 18, 2008 - 12:55pm.

old comment by fundiesRtehlulz

You know, I never really post twice. But I can't get the words of this worthless sack of sentient pig shit out of my head. I just wanted to add something. ANYONE who has a big enough heart to open their home, their wallet, their lives, AND THEIR LOVE, to a child who isn't biologically theirs, should be considered a fucking saint. A smelly hair off the ass of an adoptive parent has more worth in my eyes than somebody like you, you fucking bag of rotten dog vomit. I never usually wish harm on anyone, even gay bashing fundies, but you deserve something terrible. I hope you take a trip to your beloved holy land and get your eyes scooped out by a terrorist with a rusty melon baller. Fuck you. FUCK YOU.

old comment by Poisoned Rationality

Equalist: Christ, that person is delusional. Adoption trauma? What?

I have to wonder if she's actually met anyone that's been adopted, or if she's reading just the horror stories and ignoring all the positive adoptions that have happened and the happy lives the adoptees have lead.

She seems to think that every adopted child out there is having the same knee jerk reaction to adoption that she is - projection, much?

This woman needs therapy. And medication.

And on a personal note to you: It's more and more rare (sadly) that parents will put their children before themselves and risk their own (the parents') heartbreak to make sure their child (or children) is happy and healthy and well taken care of. The pain of it in unimaginable to me. Kudos to you for loving him enough to suffer through that separation for his sake. I hope some day you can know each other and have a relationship, if you don't already.

old comment by Illuminatalie

The logical conclusion of the fundy worship of the two-God system : bible and gonads. Humanity, love, and God, are noticeably absent in the minds of these mentally ill fanatics. The only thing that matters to them is their interpretation of the bible and their own made up rules about gonads. Obviously, there were a number of people in the bible who were raised by other than their parent, there was some woman who had her servant have a child for her because she was barren, or something like that. And obviously Moses and Jesus, for high profile examples.

I have nothing but pity for this creepazoid person, likely in his or her own personal hell already, obsessing over whether God is going to punish them for being human. But I would like to rip out their voicebox and chop off their fingers so they can't infect anyone else by communicating their sick fantasies.

old comment by Elia

So, faceless coward, I should have been left to die from lack of love in an orphanage, rather than go to the bosom of my wonderful adoptive family? My birth mother had me when she was all of 16 and unmarried, you brainless wonder. You think a traditional Colombian family is going to overlook a bastard child just because I came from their daughter's groin?

If you had your way, I'd have been sent to jail for pickpocketing or stealing food just to survive. And that's if I ever managed to live to the age of 4. I'm glad my parents came to get me, and I'm glad they hired a nanny to look after me until they arrived. And you know what? I'm glad my birth mother gave me up. I've had a better life than she likely could have provided for me. Being a mother takes more work than just giving birth. Something you obviously don't know and don't care to know.

old comment by Orion

Wow, this... this post transcends abhorrent in terms of sheer ignorance and malevolence. This deserves to go in the top 100 so that all who visit this site can witness the ultimate in delusion and lack of empathy or understanding that people can rationalize with the bible.

Also after seeing what Equalist has posted about this, I am quite convinced that this isn't a poe. No poe would go this far, most poes try harder to look real by adopting more traditional abhorrence's that Christians believe in like abortion, creationism and geocentrism. This is way too far out to be a poe.

Whoever this person is and wherever they are from, I can't wish or enact harm upon you. I can only hope that karma (in the sense of what goes around, comes around) delivers whatever natural justice you deserve. If that happens to involve an adopted person one day killing you or injuring you seriously because you insulted them, their fosters or their birth parents, then I will be happy to know justice exists and that it has been visited upon you.

My condolences to any adopted, foster carer or parent who had to read this ignorant.

old comment by Tired Christian

The world isn't perfect. The bible's rules can only be followed if everything works as it should, however that rarely happens. Children may be left without parents, or their parents may die or abandon them.

It is true that they may suffer from their loss, but they can only be helped by being welcomed back into a loving family to enjoy a loving life with their adoptive family.

The alternative is very poor for the child, who would grow up with no one to show them any love.

I understand what you're trying to do, stop parents giving up their children, but attacking someone who is simply trying to help, is a terrible thing to do that won't help in any way.

What you should do is complain to the real parents and teach them that they should care for their own flesh and blood, instead of abandoning them. Idiot.

old comment by Anti-Fundamentalist Christian

Anyone can pop out a couple of sprogs and ignore them while busily involving themselves in themselves. It happens so often that local news stories about such a thing sound like a broken record. It takes REAL PARENTS to nurture a child and give him/her affection and support throughout his/her life.

I am an adoptee. I know who my REAL PARENTS are, the mom and dad I have always regarded as Mom and Dad, the same people who changed my diapers when I was a baby, took me to buy my first school uniforms when I was a little girl, went to all my teacher/parent conferences, taught me to ride a bike, tolerated my silly little teenaged crushes, taught me how to drive, cheered me on when I graduated first from high school, then from college, etc. THESE people are the only parents I will ever want and need. I am an adoptee. I am comforted by the choir of voices here on this FSTDT site. And I have something to say to the cowardly Anonymous and any other idiot who believes this way: Your time is coming soon when you will have to answer to God, and I hope it won't come as too much of a surprise when you are condemned to eternal damnation.

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