what bad comes out of it [BDSM sex], you ask? when you get discovered its embarassing... deviant sex is humiliating, that's whats wrong with it. the devil could use it to black mail you.
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It's embarrassing because there's a social stigma attached to it. There's a social stigma attached to it because it's bad. It's bad because it's embarrassing.
You spin me right round, baby, right round, like that fundy logic, right round round round.
Dunno about you jessedance, but I'd tell him to ask me if I care, and happily get on with my life, not caring if people think me a pervert. So your argument fails.
You just keep the paychecks coming, jd, or I'll drop a hint about the dick-head ball gag, the chrome plated claw hammers and inflatable German shepherd with vibrating anus.
The devil's not really a bad guy, he just likes to watch.
The sound you just heard was all the exhibitioist of the world simultaneously punching their fists in the air and shouting "Score!"
when you get discovered its embarassing...
Do you mean 'embarassing' like when somebody you know sees you riding in a Japanese car embarassing, or like when you catch your pastor coming out of the Pussycat Theater?
Now ask yourself...why is "deviant" sex embarassing? Could it be because of prudes such as yourself that treat anyone who does more than face to face, man-on-top missionary sex as vile, evil, immoral slime? No, of course not...
Blackmail you to uncover you to whom exactly?, to God that is omnipotent and knows everything?, to the other willing participant?, to other people who may be aware that you do it but don´t care?, people who barely know you and don´t give a damn?
I'm not dancing for you!
Actually, anything Rosalie has suggested we do when we're married is humiliating when discovered. Being discovered for any sexual enjoyment is usually embarrassing, because you're raised to be embarrassed by it.
“what bad comes out of it [BDSM sex], you ask? when you get discovered its embarassing..."
isn’t that also true about vanilla sex?
If you leave a party for a few minutes and everyone finds out you felt your partner up in the bathroom, are you embarrassed?
I wouldn’t be, but i wouldn’t be ashamed if they found out I had a thing for whips. Just don’t ask to see my bruises.
“deviant sex is humiliating,”
And, again, isn’t that also true for missionary position? Your kid has her friend over and introduces you as the person who knocked up her mother?
I mean, it’s true, but you probably would feel humiliated, right?
Me? Meh. I’d probably say, “Yep! TWICE!”
"that's whats wrong with it.”
So…. Nothing?
The question was what BAD does it do, and you didn’t really come up with anything that makes BDSM worse than cishet whoopie smoochies.
“the devil could use it to black mail you.”
There’s a movie, The Carey Treatment, where someone hires a private eye to tail a doctor. Takes pictures of him sleeping with a nurse he’s not married to. He chases down the dick, takes his camera, gets that picture blown up and carries the six-foot-tall poster into the office of the guy that obviously tried to blackmail him.
Devil can’t blackmail me for having sex i’m not ashamed of. Your mileage may differ. But you’re easily frightened, I think.
Confused?
So were we! You can find all of this, and more, on Fundies Say the Darndest Things!
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