Re: Sexual harassment and "BBC" fetish

Not to take away from this but I find it odd that so many black men find the stereotypes of size to be unsavoury and those same men live up to the stereotype.

Think of it that way. I like being big. I really do. But when stereotypes come into play, it becomes all we are. People literally don't care about anything other than your dick and how they can fantasize about it. You, the person it's attached, doesn't matter. And the harassment is just the icing on the shit cake, because people treat us as if we were their big dick genies and would grant all their sexual wishes after a few rubs.

I don't see how you can complain about being at the paramount of sexual privilege with a straight face.

I don't even understand what you mean by that.

You can't complain about your privilege.

I think there's two separate issues here. Having a big dick equating to privilege is at worst, debatable, at best, relative. And, in this specific situation, it only becomes privilege if one assumes I enjoy and/or want to indulge in every single white woman's big dick fantasy. Which I do not.

No, it does not. Privilege is given to you whether you indulge in it or not - look up 'white privilege'.

Inferred privilege, that is.

Privilege is an advantage given to you by society - it's objectively proven in your case.

I fail to understand where.

Where what? Your sexual advantage is given to you by society, it isn't earned by you. It's objectively proven by the very stories you tell and those that others tell, and the vast literature on the subject.