A woman should not give a man anything until they are married. I disagree that a woman or a man, for that matter, should feel comfortable no matter what he/she wears in public. I do believe in social standards and personal responsibility. A person who feels genuinely that he/she did not contribute to their circumstances will not be as embarrassed and will be respected for the kind of victim they represent. A person should dress modestly and not present themself as an object to be desired, if they do not wish to attract unwanted or undue attention. I do not believe a woman should cover herself with a sheet while the guy runs around in shorts and a t-shirt; however, I do take offense when anyone dresses provocatively, even lurid but acts the prude when such dress instigates unwanted advances. Rape is a crime, but it is certainly one that might be avoided in many instances by simply applying tact..