Everybody want an Asian woman, but don't nobody want to be an Asian man.

There is a saying that black people throw around when they see a non-black person appropriating black culture popularized by comedian Paul Mooney that states "Everybody wanna be a n!gga, but don't nobody wanna be a n!gga". The idea that everyone loves black culture, but no one actually wants to be black, namely a black man. But as we know, the black stereotype is always conveniently the opposite of the Asian stereotype. Blacks are stereotyped as the pinnacle of masculinity while Asians are stereotyped as the most feminine. So if every non-black man wants to be black, then every non-Asian man must lust over Asian women. To a large degree, this is true, non-Asian men lust over Asian women because of stereotypes of submissiveness and femininity. The only men who don't drool over Asian women are Asian men, ironically. This is evidenced by the view of Asian women on this sub. But if you live in America in a moderately diverse area, chances are you see Asian women with men of other races all the damn time and never see Asian women being bashed as unattractive or undesirable. The femininity part is a little odd seeing as the vast majority of Asian women lack any breasts and butts like women of other races.
I see Asian women not only with white men but often paired with black men where I live. I wholeheartedly believe any non-Asian man with an Asian woman has zero respect for Asian men. And they know they can get away with it. Asian women get a pass for their flagrant self hatred.
Any other race of man paired with a black or Latina woman quickly finds out that he must have a deep unique genuine respect for black or Latino people, period. This is why BFXM and LFXM is much rarer than WMAF. Most white and non-black guys aren't built to bear the pressure of being seen with a black woman in public, especially an attractive one. A white or non-black man with a black woman will be called out in public if he is seen as not being "down" and dating a sister. There is a good probability that even the coolest white guy will be pressed on for being seen in public with a highly attractive black or Latina woman if he's in the wrong place at the wrong time. Because there is a double standard that discourages black women from dating out while black men do it all the time just like how white men and non-Asians hate on Asian men who date out. XMAF is normalized and accepted because both Asian females and men of other races work together to actively emasculate Asian men.