[Serious] is it ok to go to cinema alone? i just dont want any fuckery with people anymore
i have some tinder matches, but im too depressed and blackpilled to chat up women, i dont want to fake my nolife and pretend to be easy happy go likeable person.
and i dont have any friends to go with, plus at this age, nobody goes to cinemae with male mates, you are seen as fucking retard i u do so.
just wna go to movies, check out the thing with hugh jackman just for some change, instead of rotting at home like now.
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Who has the time or energy to bother whether the other movie-goers are going with partners, friends or alone?
News flash: women seldom want to be chatted-up. Many of us want to talk TO people who are interesting and who find us interesting, with no ulterior motives than to have an interesting time.
A lot of people spend a lot of time at home with social media and online games. If it's voluntary, it's hardly "rotting". It's only bad if you have kids you're neglecting, or if you neglect work or other duties to do it.
At what age? My husband has gone to movies with male friends, and he's 48. IF anyone notice, they probably just think "I guess his wife doesn't like this kind of movie".
Honey, just do it! Go to the movies if you want to. Don't bother about what others think; most people will probably not even notice you, as they are occupied with their own group, or with their own problems.
Is he referring to that movie where he's a circus ringmaster? Why would anyone want to see that?
The social anxiety is strong in this one. I would be a bit more sympathetic, but he states his problem, states the solution & still won't do it, even if it's as mundane to going to a damn movie.
I've gone to a few movies solo. Not since 2012, but still have done it.
I see guys going to movies with their friends/brothers/boyfriends all the time, so where the hell does that crap about no one going to movies with male friends come from? Women do it all the time, & it's perfectly acceptable for guys as well. Unless you're a rabidly homophobic dumbass, I suppose. What planet is this stupid kid on?
Then do it.
Y'know what? I thought my years from 16 to 19 were loner-loser anti-social years but since Incel posts I guess I'm closer to Hugh Hefner than you lot.
At least I developed some skills in that self imposed estrangement, nothing that made me rich but paid off in little ways till my 60th year. And I wasn't wallowing in pity for my selfish spoiled ass. I didn't watch M.A.S.H and get eaten up with envy by Hawkeye's charm, I didn't look at beautiful couples and get mad about it. And I've known plenty of short/ugly or plain/fat/scrawny/flat-chested/ dumb or variations therein and almost all have had good lives. It's the petty, spoiled, self important shits who have made their own misery.
Yes. Go out, do something for yourself. It'd be better if you meet people but just getting out is a major improvement. You shouldn't even be asking this question.
Incels are just dementedly obsessed with external expectations.
nobody goes to cinemae with male mates, you are seen as a fucking retard if yo u do so.
If there's anyone who thinks you, specifically, are a fucking retard, I don't think going to the movies with friends is the reason.
1- Drive/Bus/Bike/Taxi to a cinema
2- Choose your film
3- Pay for ticket
4- Enter auditorium
5- Meet person of opposite gender in the next seat who is interested in the same film; get talking to person on the same interests as theirs
6- Watch film
7- Leave cinema together
8-?????
9- PROFIT!
If I can be in a relationship via just casually remarking on someone else's tastes in manga at a dealer's table in a convention, the only one stopping you from doing the above: is you .
'A journey of a thousand miles', and all that jazz. Perhaps it's time to take that first step...!
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