Yes, who wouldn't want to be hated, regularly beaten up, vilified, not able to hold hand in public without being sneered at, not being allowed to go to the prom with your significant other, not being able to marry that significant other, be at the receiving end of a "corrective rape" now and again, receiving death threats regularly, in some cases being murdered for whom you love? It does sounds VERY tempting, doesn't it? Who wouldn't want to choose that kind of life?
NO-ONE! That's who.
You sound almost jealous of the amount of partners of male gays. You have citations for that "fact", of course?
Most women who are killed by their spouse, are murdered by a man.
Gays DO have the right to marry in Sweden, they've had that right for five years now, and we had registered partnership for about ten years before that. Gays ARE getting married, they have kids, go to work, leave their kids at kindergarten, wash their clothes, shop for groceries, invite the neighbors over for dinner, just like the rest of us. Where's the unnaturalness or anti-sociality? (Me and my husband are straight, and are pretty anti-social; we like it best at home, just the two of us and our cats, in front of the TV or a computer screen.)
How come there's almost always a queue of people who want to get married at midnight on the date when marriage equality is finally implemented? These people are already living in marriage-like relationships, stupid. All they want is the same legal benefits that married couples have.