If a girl fucked you or dated you, nothing would be better. You'd be an inferior normie. Being a normie is a horrible way to exist, being an inferior normie would just mean you'd have to learn to completely ignore reality so that you can have a healthy relationship or else.
You'd go crazy with anxiety and she'd leave you.

You'd get attached to her and it would kill you although you'd know she's just a cunt. But she was a special cunt who fucked you so you'd turn into a cunt worshiping heart broken normie failure.

You would lose the strength that comes with living in the disgusting miserable real world and not coping with it, cause you'd have to cope.
Or maybe you'd pull it together and have to keep on learning to cope to progress further up the normie ladder. Not be jealous, not be insecure, be open minded, ignore who she is and her past, just eat shit and be grateful a cunt is allowing you access, tolerate the retarded obnoxious creature symbolically attached to it.

Convince yourself she loves you.
Live a life of a cuck. Maybe get married to her or someone else cause now you're a normie so with experience come used up 5s. Maybe a 7 with a make up on but that's ok cause she wants you. She doesn't exactly show it but that's just your insecurity talking.

Then you hit the jackpot. You're married and for 30 minute cunt access every two weeks you have to deal with the cunt tumor for hours and hours each day.
You have to date her, keep things spontaneous, give her quality time, listen to her, respect her passions and interest, compromise, have ambition in life, cause every single thing you do now concerns the cunt attachment.

If now you spend most of your time on this sub what the fuck do you think you'll be doing when you no longer even can do that and drink all day? You think your life will be better when youre not a neet or when you have to eat and drink compatibly with her? Sit with her at the table for dinner. Every single day. Consider her shit every day.

You think a job and a family is an improvement? You'll have to make "friends" too perhaps. Visit them and chat. Pick a hobby. Have passion.
No, life is horrible, miserable and lonely. But if you weren't incel life would still be horrible, miserable, and lonely, you just wouldn't be able to not waste effort on it. That's it, thats all there is to it.

You're rotting while time is passing one way or another. If you ever saw it for what it is then you'd know that anything you do with it is a cope.
I'd still maybe prefer the ability to fuck but only cause IIke the idea of contributing to female traumatic experiences. I'm sick of sentimentality.