Goood, those comments make my skin crawl.
I agree with Bob to a point. If a woman is raped by a man whom she knows or has had sex with before MAYBE there's a chance she would enjoy it if she could get over the whole "not wanting it in the first place" thing.
Oh, so rape is OK if it's only a trusted friend or lover betraying you by doing it, rather than a complete stranger.
Like most hysterical females you can't talk about rape without leaping to some other serious crime in order to assert harm. In your case you leap to sodomy which is a very different from normal male/female sexual congress -- rape.
Men frequently are pressured to engage in sex with females, "rape" according to one widely used feminist definition. It's not a big deal.
I agree there should be a greater focus on violence, physical and sexual to guys, and that we need to stop letting girls get away with being perverted to guys (for example, if I pinched a girl in the ass and she hit me, I'd be a perv - if she pinched me and I slapped her, suddenly I'd be the bad guy), but I'll never understand the "it happens to guys, too, so it's OK" approach, though. It's just disgusting.
That Pitcairn mess is interesting and you can find it on the Web. Most of the 'raped' girls, now women, actually loved the men who did it. And, a lot of the older women who experienced this in their youth thought it was just a part of their life.
So the fuck what?! Girls who have their vaginas destroyed by circumsicion in the Middle East think it's just part of life, too, and'll do it to their own kids if no one steps in and educates them. Is that OK, too, then?
And so what if they loved the men who did it? The vast majority of rapes occur between loved ones - the assaults you hear about in the news where women are assaulted by strangers are the exceptions, not the rule.
THIS is why we need rape awareness campaigns. Assholes like these people.
