Re: The blackpill is spreading, boyos
Reality is between the blue and black pills.
The blackpill sees the bleakest interpretation possible.
The bluepill denies there's a problem at all.
In reality no normie is denying things like women having an easier time on Tinder, or appearance being important to women, or the fact that some people are so ugly that they find it nearly impossible to find love.
Those are just inconvenient truths no one likes to actually state in public.
Hmm. The Black Pill is strictly a materialist view of sexuality. It’s not depressing because anyone intended it that way, it’s depressing because it exposes all of our psychological defense mechanisms as copes. This purely materialist view is therefore deterministic.
There are two reactions to this: recoiling and increasing copes, or accepting it as the truth.
Blue Pill is pure cope. Red Pill is partial cope, partial acceptance.
That's a way of looking at it and it's quite accurate.
I would say that these things are so complicated just because humans are also complicated and don't always work as expected. We all have delusions and copes, even the best of us, and so we don't always act rationally.
Most people aren't going to date someone that repulses them but they may well settle for someone less attractive than they could potentially snag if like their personality enough. There will be people out there that are more compatible, but even if one of them comes knocking in many cases they won't stray because sticking it out with someone you're invested in that's 'good enough' is the path of least resistance.
So where I'd reject the black and red pills is when they think that everyone will act in this dark, unfaithful manner. Comfort and familiarity are huge motivators to many people.
You are right. Many women will go for the "good enough" after their partying days dry up. But that itself is a cope, because to the woman, she has "settled". She views herself as superior to her mate and this means hypergamy. This is the modern relationship/marriage arrangement. She's spent her time on the Chad cock carousel, so no matter who she ends up with, they will never be Chad. She will always view them as inferior providers that she settled for, and he should be grateful. No amount of red pilled PUA techniques or blue pilled cuckoldry will change this mindset that has taken root in the femoid.
For this particular reason, the Black Pill opposes degeneracy like premarital sex. If the only cock she has ever had and will have is her mate's, then hypergamy is greatly reduced and she will more likely view the relationship as an equal match.
settle for someone less attractive than they could potentially snag if like their personality enough
It happens. The key thing is that they need to meet a minimum standard. No one will settle for an uggo unless they're loaded or famous, but if you have a choice between a 6/10 and a 7/10 and the former has the better personality, they can win out. Depends massively on the person and where they are in their lives.
This is especially true where there's less resistance on one route - that can be down to distance, money, kids, etc.
Your average happy suburban 6/10 housewife with a looksmatched husband probably isn't going to cheat just for a 7/10 plumber doing some work round the house unless they're disatisfied or frustrated... but they might well cheat if an 8/10 rockstar takes them backstage at a gig for a quickie. It's all context, and all applies to men just as much btw.