BDSM is NOT Romantic!

You may have heard of the novel and movie “50 Shades of Gray”. One of the lifestyles depicted is the BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Sadism and Masochism). It is sometimes used on transgender girls, and has been depicted throughout the Internet. Some folks even believe that it is romantic. Well, have I got news for you. BDSM IS NOT ROMANTIC!

The BDSM lifestyle is a very abusive lifestyle. Unnecessary restraints, gagging, physical abuse such as spanking, being forced to submit to a master or mistress…that isn’t romantic at all. One would suspect that a master or mistress may have been abused as a child, and want to take their physical anger out on a transgender person. Maybe the transgender person is naive enough to take all of this physical, mental and emotional abuse. It also could be that the master/mistress may have had an inferiority complex or was bullied while growing up. Maybe they were bullies themselves. That person might have served time in juvenile detention or in an adult jail. We should be disturbed when we find that someone’s home has a dungeon built in the basement, designed to unlawfully imprison a person. Tying a person up with ropes, handcuffs or other unnecessary restraints, spanking or even beating that person, forcing that person into sexual situations they’re not ready for or don’t want to be in, and taking away their freedom…these are the hallmarks of an abusive lifestyle.

The BDSM lifestyle also runs afoul of the law. Unlawful imprisonment is illegal in all 50 states. Forcing a person (even a transgender person) to be held against his or her will is against the law. Physically abusing a person using this lifestyle constitutes assault, which is considered a felony in all 50 states. Restraining a person with ropes or handcuffs is also illegal. Many of these masters or mistresses who practice this unhealthy and abusive lifestyle should be ashamed of themselves. They need to seek the help of a qualified psychotherapist before they land themselves behind bars.

If you know a person involved in this lifestyle who is holding a person (especially a transgender person) against his or her will, have evidence of unlawful restraint or physical abuse, don’t be afraid to report it to your local authorities. If you or someone you know has been abused by someone involved in the BDSM lifestyle, seek the help of a qualified psychotherapist at once. The life you save will be your own or that of someone you know.

The BDSM lifestyle is an unhealthy, abusive and harmful lifestyle. More information can be found at the Pornography Harms Web site. Their Web site is http://www.pornharms.com/

THIS IS THE TRUTH, THE WHOLE TRUTH, AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH ABOUT THE UNHEALTHY AND ABUSIVE BDSM LIFESTYLE. There is nothing that can repudiate the honest-to-goodness truth.