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[SuicideFuel] The worst part about being an ugly man is there's nothing to look forwards to in life

This is honestly probably the most horrible and crushing part of it really and I feel a part people misunderstand. You get people saying shit like "there are people out there who've been through far worse and they have no problem", but the difference between going through a bad situation and being in a situation such as being an ugly man is that if you're attractive that bad situation will end.

As an attractive man, even while going through the worst, you know that if you can just get through it there is a light at the end of the tunnel. You know that you have the potential to live a good life no matter how bad it gets in the moment and this can carry you through such awful times. As an ugly man this is different, there is no light at the end of that tunnel. There is absolutely nothing to look forwards to, and you live knowing while its bad that it will ultimately only get worse as time goes on. There is nothing for you to look forwards to, women will never love you, people will never want to be friends with you, you will be alone and always will be. You situation will simply continue to be awful no matter how hard you work, and the stresses you go through will never pay off to something better. You're in a state of living for the sake of living with no real future. Your life will simply be awful until you die, looked at with disdain by those around you, or at best a jester for their entertainment at your expense.

I think this is the most crushing aspect of it, its what makes going through all the awful times so much worse, having to go through them knowing they will never end and can only get worse and worse the longer you live, at the very best being able to merely distract yourself with things that take you away from the nightmarish reality you live in, but never really having a future, just working to the next cope. And all the while you get to watch all the better looking people surf through life, even at their worst still doing better knowing they'll get out of it eventually and go on to mog you in every possible way.

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Yeah ’cause Lyle Lovett is such a good looker
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There’s blue skies in summer. There’s music. There’s books. There’s good food. There’s video games. There’s cats to pet. There’s things. Something. ANYTHING BUT SITTING AROUND PITYING YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU DON’T HAVE A 14-YEAR-OLD SEX SLAVE!

Incels are people whining about being imprisoned in a cage, when everyone around can see that the cage door not only isn’t locked, it isn’t even closed. And they just walked inside themselves. You could escape your oh-so-horrible agony any time you wished. You simply choose not to.

IT’S NOT YOUR LOOKS, IT’S YOU….Oh forget it! It’s like talking to a WALL!

Having sex once is THE ONLY thing your life is about? WHAT A LIMITED mind you must have! If only you dolts were able to go to a prostitute (not that I’m a fan of prostitution, but some of these high-strung “incels” murder people, and I’m even less a fan of murder), and get it over with.
Sure, sex is nice, but it’s a very small part of life.

There are ugly and pleasant people who have lots and lots of sex.
There are pretty and vapid/creepy people who stay virgins for life.

There are people born with no legs and no arms. There are people born with their hearts outside their bodies. There are people born with just half a brain. There are children in poor countries born with cleft lip and palate. These people are not going through a bad situation, they ARE in a bad situation. Being ugly is just skin-deep. Being pleasant and funny and interesting have made the ugliness an asset for many, many people. Having an INTERESTING look makes you recognizable. Lots of supposed “beautiful” people are rather non-descript; being a model for selling stuff means you should make people focus on the stuff, and not on you.

The bad situation of having no legs, or useless legs like “Grubs” (google Squirmy and Grubs, they are absolutely adorable!), doesn’t end whether they are ugly or attractive.

A couple I know of had twins a couple of years ago. One of the twins died shortly after birth. Every time they look at their daughter, they see the missing girl in her. That is one of the worst things that could happen to someone. You actually think that would be easier if you’re good-looking?

You too have the potential to live a good life no matter how bad it gets, dolt. You just REFUSE to accept it, you are just WALLOWING in, almost relishing, your own perceived misfortune.

Why would people WANT to be friends with a misery mope like you? People like friends who are FUN to be with, or cozy, or people who can cook well, people who are good listeners, or have a charming and welcoming home. I’m quiet, introvert, shy, and a pudgy menopausal little lady. I don’t have a best friend, but I’m friendly with my nearest seven (male) colleagues, and have lots of nice friends and acquaintances.

What awful times are you talking about? Being diagnosed with cancer? Getting flesh-eating bacteria and having to amputating your left leg? Being allergic to egg and milk-powder, which is basically in EVERYTHING ready-made? Being raped (yeah, that happens to men too)? Having a child or a niece/nephew dying of cancer?

I’m fifty. With luck, I’ve only lived about half my life yet. I LOOK FORWARD to all the new springs, and family visits, perhaps continuing the spa-weekend tradition with the family that has two years now, and watching my nephews and nieces grow up and become adults. The best thing in the world is going out into my garden when it’s green and fragrant, and just sit under the cherry tree and EXIST. Then I’m at peace with the world.

Almost EVERYONE has ups and downs in life, dolt. Very, very few surf through life, and it certainly doesn’t have anything to do with how you look. It’s more about the social status you are born into.