If females were actually attracted to many different kinds of males, and males were actually picky

This is the thinking meta for society currently. Most normies believe that males are more picky and selective than females, and that females are attracted to many types of males with varying genetic traits. If this was true :

1. At many points in your life, females would have approached you in real life or on social media out of nowhere. They would be lured in by your appearance and would want to get to know you with the intention of eventually sleeping with you. These females would lead the conversations and request that you take them out for dates.

Females of varying attractiveness levels are approached by males on social media and in real life. This does not happen with unattractive males however.

2. You wouldn't be considered "picky and misogynist" for wanting a female virgin partner, because female virgins would be much more common. If males were actually picky with who they dated and slept with, many 20+ female virgins would be looking for self improvement advice and making subreddits dedicated to getting their first date.
There is a reason females who seek virgin male partners aren't criticized. People know that male virgins are more common than trees.

3. Incels would not exist. If females were attracted to different genetic traits, males with short stature, recessed jaws, bug eyes, premature balding, and small penises would have gotten laid multiple times during their youth. There would be female led social media accounts dedicated to short males with recessed chins, with females fawning over famous short actors with male pattern baldness and weak jaws.