The next best thing is for him to latch on to a woman who accepts him for him, his real self. For him to be completely open, vulnerable, and honest, and still have a woman he deems “honorable” desire him for it. This is extremely difficult since the male is not easily convinced he is anything of value, and would likely reject the notion that any woman may appreciate him. And he’s right, a woman is very unlikely to love a creature who is essentially a light-sucking black hole (selfish, entitled, resentful, boring, lazy, often violent - the male stripped to his most foundational parts).
At the end of the day, the male only feels complete if he creates a womb in himself, or hoards a womb in another, or both. They have many different methods, some far more “healthy” and less destructive than others. Playboys, RPbros, trannies, pundits, artists, monks. They are all basically in pursuit of The Womb.