RE: “Just Take Hormones, Cis”
There is actually a transgender equivalent to “Just take a shower, clean your room, get a haircut, and hit the gym, bro”. Many people both within and outside the transgender community think hormones will allow most people to pass.
This is not true. I’ve had both a gender therapist and a doctor who treats transgender patients tell me it’s not true. I’ve also heard from non-passing transwomen who have been on hormones.
I will post more about that later, but first I want to give an example of a cisgender male who “passes” much better than many transwomen who have been on hormones for a period of time.
Most mtf that pass were either pretty boys or chads or high-tier normies to begin with. If you are incel with less than the best genes its over, u will not be able to live a happy life as a man or woman.
Feminization turns many males into ultra-woke anti-male feminist SJWs who are sex-negative asexuals. They are not really asexuals because like most feminist, they dress slutty to entice, but then shame males for lusting, which is super-toxic.
If we could have trans that don’t instantly reject males, utopia might be achieved.
This is from a non-passing trans woman who received a lot of comments from passing trans women that are similar to the “suggestions” male incels get (dress nice, get a haircut, go to the gym, act confident). I’m not discounting the importance of looksmaxing (for incels and trans women), but it only goes so far.
The questions I would get when I used to go to online trans communities for help with my struggling transition ranged from: "Are you sure your levels (hormonally) are where they should be?" to "You're not dressing right/wearing enough jewelry/giving enough female signals/wearing makeup//walking/talking/burping like a woman would." These people are writing off of their own experiences and their's alone, not anyone else's. So what you get is a bunch of passing trans woman telling others how it is. That sucks.
I've been on testosterone blockers and female hormones for years. I get my levels checked by the same hospital that prescribes these medications on a regular basis. They almost always come up in normal cis female" ranges according to my doctor. In my first few years I wore everything from eyeshadow, a foundation/concealer cocktail and lip gloss nearly everywhere I went, to skirts and leggings with a top that clearly showed "YO I have tits now, CALL ME A GIRL." Thing is, a lot of these approaches to presentation caused more problems than solutions.
the trans community is toxic. Most are sjws that get triggered if u post trump memes even as a joke. For instance saying things like “fake news” is off limits, even if u didn’t vote for trump. The estrogen makes them neurotic and hypersensitive to any type of criticism.
Also the idea i head of trans was easy mtfs like traps. Now the word trap is of-flimits too by the word-warriors. And expressing the idea trans should be fuckable instead of pent up sex-negative feminists is taboo to say too. The idea that transwomen are an easier alternative to dating cis females is pretty much a failure.