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DarthDva #sexist #transphobia yourenotalone.co

RE: “Just Take Hormones, Cis”

There is actually a transgender equivalent to “Just take a shower, clean your room, get a haircut, and hit the gym, bro”. Many people both within and outside the transgender community think hormones will allow most people to pass.

This is not true. I’ve had both a gender therapist and a doctor who treats transgender patients tell me it’s not true. I’ve also heard from non-passing transwomen who have been on hormones.

I will post more about that later, but first I want to give an example of a cisgender male who “passes” much better than many transwomen who have been on hormones for a period of time.

Most mtf that pass were either pretty boys or chads or high-tier normies to begin with. If you are incel with less than the best genes its over, u will not be able to live a happy life as a man or woman.

Feminization turns many males into ultra-woke anti-male feminist SJWs who are sex-negative asexuals. They are not really asexuals because like most feminist, they dress slutty to entice, but then shame males for lusting, which is super-toxic.

If we could have trans that don’t instantly reject males, utopia might be achieved.

This is from a non-passing trans woman who received a lot of comments from passing trans women that are similar to the “suggestions” male incels get (dress nice, get a haircut, go to the gym, act confident). I’m not discounting the importance of looksmaxing (for incels and trans women), but it only goes so far.

The questions I would get when I used to go to online trans communities for help with my struggling transition ranged from: "Are you sure your levels (hormonally) are where they should be?" to "You're not dressing right/wearing enough jewelry/giving enough female signals/wearing makeup//walking/talking/burping like a woman would." These people are writing off of their own experiences and their's alone, not anyone else's. So what you get is a bunch of passing trans woman telling others how it is. That sucks.

I've been on testosterone blockers and female hormones for years. I get my levels checked by the same hospital that prescribes these medications on a regular basis. They almost always come up in normal cis female" ranges according to my doctor. In my first few years I wore everything from eyeshadow, a foundation/concealer cocktail and lip gloss nearly everywhere I went, to skirts and leggings with a top that clearly showed "YO I have tits now, CALL ME A GIRL." Thing is, a lot of these approaches to presentation caused more problems than solutions.

the trans community is toxic. Most are sjws that get triggered if u post trump memes even as a joke. For instance saying things like “fake news” is off limits, even if u didn’t vote for trump. The estrogen makes them neurotic and hypersensitive to any type of criticism.

Also the idea i head of trans was easy mtfs like traps. Now the word trap is of-flimits too by the word-warriors. And expressing the idea trans should be fuckable instead of pent up sex-negative feminists is taboo to say too. The idea that transwomen are an easier alternative to dating cis females is pretty much a failure.

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DarthDva #sexist #transphobia yourenotalone.co

RE: “Just Take Hormones, Cis”

”I don’t know what qualifies as ‘passing’ in the LGBTQ community”

Some of my friends know this girl irl:

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She’s a MTF transgender. This is what I call passing. She’s hot enough for me to want to date her. Unfortunately MTF trans in that level of “hotness” won’t date anyone below chadlite category. The only MTF trans that people like you and me could date are the ones too poor to pay for plastic surgeries and good makeup, but these ones are too ugly even for us.

The only MTFs that flirt with me are boomers twice my age that dont pass. The younger ones born after 1994 never flirt.

Im bicurious and find the idea of cute males hot. So the idea a male would throwaway their masculinity in order to be a hot bimbo s lut for me is a major turn on for me. Unfortunately, most transsexuals born after 1994 are ultra-woke SJWs who would say phrases to me like “noone owes you anything” and ignore all my messages and not give me any affection whatsoever, which is precisely the opposite of what I fantasize a transgirl to be for me.

Yea I wouldn’t date her. Of course she looks fine from a distance, but her facial structure is manly, her tits are fake, she looks angry, and she probably has a penis or worse and she probably sounds like a dude

Even with FTMs pre or early transition they give off a more genuine female appearance. Not saying this to make anyone feel bad, it’s just how I personally experience attraction.

And yet she’d probably reject me and then chase men who are disgusted by her. Fuck this clown ass world.

As far as this transwoman goes, sounds to me this world is rigged. Transwomen throw themselves at males that don’t want them at all, and reject all the males that love them. Makes me sick with rage.

But the key point here, is there are dark forces rigging us all to be miserable. This is part of my thesis about the masculinization of society…normal healthy males with normal emotions are shunned and rejected until they turn into mentally broken brutes, then all of a sudden women will fuck them, but by then they are already turned into broken brutes.

MTF are easy.

Literally everything was easy for me to find, in theory, except the only thing I am actually attracted to, “cis” females. Most of the time when I think a female had messaged me first, it turns out to be a MTF trans when I see their profile, before I quit dating apps.

Not easy for me. Obviously it proves world is rigged garbage. MTF chase you even though you don’t value them at all and aren’t attracted. But then MTF dump me over minor trivial things. World is rigged garbage where everyone is forced to be miserable for no reason.

John_Reed is an excellent specimen to illustrate what I mean. He is a chad, gets women begging him for sex. But then automatically some magical event happens in his mind where he is no longer attracted. Its like people are just puppets for some agenda to force us to be miserable.

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adolf512, Restart80 & G-Flake #sexist #transphobia yourenotalone.co

(adolf512)

You are more likely to reproduce if you go trans

Some gay and bisexual women like dick and by going for a transbian they will be able to start a family with their partner.

You just need to bank your sperm before starting HrT.

If you dont transition the probability of you reproducing is almost zero.

This applies to the bottom 10% of males.

(Restart80)

Probably meant sex with guys.

I think being trans does raise your SMV with regard to bisexual females, marginally. And it likely raises it more than that with regard to bisexual males.

On average, non-trans heterosexual males are considered garbage tier. The lowest SMV of any group (on average) in 2019.

(G-Flake)

My account wasn’t able to log in through Facebook, but anyway, let’s pretend for a second that @pong_lenis is totally serious and worth arguing with. Yes trans people who want to be women should transition. This is why:
“For me, I have absolutely no regrets about transitioning and it has made me a million times happier.”

https://youtu.be/NdueL-0LS3Q?t=37

While I wouldn’t necessarily discourage anyone from transitioning, I dislike how much many people in the trans community encourage people to transition. Your quality of life is going to vary GREATLY depending on these factors:

How well you pass (ie whether it’s obvious you’re trans or not)
Where you live (San Francisco vs. Saudi Arabia…or Alabama - especially if you don’t pass)
Your financial situation (MtF is particularly expensive and you might also have problems finding a job - especially if you don’t pass)
Whether you have supportive friends or family (A disproportionate number of homeless teens are LGBT because their parents kicked them out of the house)
Your current relationship status (divorce is common enough without throwing trans into the mix…and finding a new partner will be harder if you don’t pass)
Did I mention the thing about passing being important?

Personally I kind of agree with you. MtF is really expensive and the ones who don’t pass look weird as fuck. Like imagine an NFL linebacker with a wig and lipstick (and no FFS). I mean I consider myself LGBT friendly but I wouldn’t want to date or have sex with someone who looks like that. And yeah, if they looked like that at a job interview I could totally imagine them being discriminated against. It must suck to be a non-passing trans person. But yeah, I agree that those are definitely things to consider.

Yeah. “Uncanny Valley” is what it’s sometimes called. The term was originally applied to androids who look sort of human, but not convincing enough. It’s sort of off-putting.

It’s not a justification for hate, but I think that’s a big part of what’s driving it. People then rationalize their feelings by saying it goes against the “natural order”, but I think it makes them feel uncomfortable.

Even I feel that way to a certain extent and I’ve heard other trans women say the same thing. There ARE plenty of guys into trans women enough that they don’t care, but trans women don’t wan to date those guys lol. While I understand, I don’t really feel sorry for them. I’m actually planning on doing a video about “chasers” on my channel.