A woman's CADAVER is the first sign of interest for me, that's not to say I won't get to like her. And "why go for hot women" I go for women I find attractive, that's what a man does. Who's to say an UNATTRACTIVE woman would have more in common with me, than an attractive one?
There ARE lines between genders, btw. The two genders are about as different as can be, whilst being in the same species.
Females are very different to men, not socially, but biologically and that is why there will always be natural gender roles.
Okay so you clearly don't have any awareness of gender and women. You just showed to everybody why women don't want you. Gender roles are bullshit. Internal differences btw the genders are imaginary and arbitrary as they have changed over the last centuries to represent vastly different norms and expectations, not to mention the variations within cultures of the same era. Read a history book.
Can you imagine having a chat with a woman that doesn't lead to you fucking her? I said to you that you need to engage with women without the goal of getting them naked first before you can actually be seen as someone who is worthwhile. Women do actually have thoughts, ambitions and feelings. If you can't accept that, you really have answered your own questions. Grow some self awareness. Seek therapy. Have a conversation with a woman without calling her a "female" or else live alone and unloved. Your call.
"Gender roles are bullshit." Women aren't hunters, they are nurturers. Men hunt. Women nurture. That is hardcoded in DNA. You can't escape that, no matter how much feminist mental gymnastics you engage in. Men are programmed to act, women are designed to be acted up on. Which is why all of this feminism is making it impossible for men to interact with women.
"Can you imagine having a chat with a woman that doesn't lead to you fucking her?"
I've gone 30 years with barely talking to women, of course I can. I wouldn't even know how to get to fucking her, that's the problem and the source of my rage.
I can't relate to feminine energy.
I don't know what century you live in. Women are not "designed". Why is it all easy for normal ppl? Why have I never had an issue talking to men on an equal level? Or acting on my own without relying on a man to fix things for me? I've lived alone for the last six years and can easily fix a vaccuum cleaner or attach a shower curtain. You aren't special for having a penis. My vagina doesn't make me a senseless object to be "acted upon". You fail at the most basic level. You don't know the first thing about women and it shows. Engage with one. Talk to her. Listen to her. Don't move in with your bullshit that no educated person would ever believe in.
Most men have a very easy time talking to women. I've only met one dude like you who couldn't look me in the eyes without starting to tell me how inferior I am to him and how much he resents all """females""" for being shitty to men and guess what, he is also an incel. Maybe stop acting like an incel to stop being an incel. You are being provided with solutions to your problem yet you are too stubborn to see them.
If it came down to survival, it is YOU who would be failing at the most basic level, begging a MAN to take you under his wing.
Your biological programming is not suited to finding solutions to problems, I'm not putting you down, it's simply a fact. I've attended approaching women on the street and it never goes well. I've even recorded the reactions I get, to prove my theory.
If it wasn't for my testosterone making me want to do things to a woman's body, I wouldn't be interested in them in the first place.
At the end of the day, all women go for in a men is LOOKS. This is enabled by society, allowing her to chase chad.
If society fell away, women would quickly attach themselves to the most useful man in close proximity, like the leeches they are.