Leaving the deathstyle
I'm Just a "noob" but I know I can do this. I've been reading some otf the arugments against leaving the homosexual lifestyle (which I'll call the Homosexual Deathstyle from now on) and I just can't believe so many people are deceived by the Devil. Especially those who can call themselves Christians.
All the studies and statistics in the world can be used to prove anything one way or another but what really matters is what happens in a persons actual life.
I would like to start this thread so that people will know that leaving the Deathstyle is possible. I left it behind when I found Christ. I want to encourage other people on this board to contribute to the thread thier own personal testimony of leaving Homosexuality. I KNOW there are many on this board who have.
If you're some kind of skeptic I'm not really interested in hearing from you. However if you are a Homosexual who is struggling and wants to talk about things and you aren't afraid to listen to God's honest truth then you are more than welcome.
God Bless,
Helen
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Sure, it's possible for gays to ACT straight for the rest of their lives. It's equally possible for straight people to decide to ACT gay for the rest of their lives.
If straights don't have to have sex with people they're not sexually attracted do, and don't have to eschew having sex with those to whom they do feel an attraction, then neither should gays.
~David D.G.
I'm sorry, but endorsement by personal testimony has negligible value when it comes from someone who refers her thoughts, opinions and values to a higher authority. You're going to need more than just that to convert me.
Even so, if you're happy doing what you do, then good for you. Hooray for mindlessly enforced conformity to dogmatic standards.
Well when you call it a deathstyle, I'd want to leave too. So, what if I call Christianity a deathstyle, and encourage you to leave...
like, omigod, I totally wanted to kiss another girl, right, at this party when I was, like, fifteen! So, like, I so must totally be gay, right?! Well, now, like, I like boys, right, so I'm, like, cured!
Homosexual Deathstyle? My, Helen, aren't you just the clever little lesbian.Yes, that's right/ You're still a lesbian even if you don't have sex with women anymore. It doesn't go away, you know. You are repressing an integral part of yourself. Still, if that works for you, then great. Have a great life--but shut the fuck up about the rest of us who would rather remain true to our feelings and the way GOD MADE US.
I'm Just a "noob" but I know I can do this. You gee-golly sure can, Helen! You can do anything you put your mind to!
I've been reading some otf the arugments against leaving the homosexual lifestyle (which I'll call the Homosexual Deathstyle from now on) You do that, Helen. You make up nonsense words wherever you want. After all, you're just making yourself look stupider.
and I just can't believe so many people are deceived by the Devil. Especially those who can call themselves Christians. Oh yeah? How? Cite proof. Hell, cite some evidence.
All the studies and statistics in the world can be used to prove anything one way or another but what really matters is what happens in a persons actual life. So in other words, you're going to ignore statistical data and focus on one person who fits your preconceived criteria?
I would like to start this thread so that people will know that leaving the Deathstyle is possible. Oh, that's so clever! You're still calling it the "Deathstyle" even though you sound like an idiot and haven't even provided a reason for calling it that!
I left it behind when I found Christ. Why, did you and Jebus have hot wild monkey love and it made you straight?
I want to encourage other people on this board to contribute to the thread thier own personal testimony of leaving Homosexuality. I KNOW there are many on this board who have. How do you know that? We're ignoring statistics, remember?
f you're some kind of skeptic I'm not really interested in hearing from you. Open debate will not be tolerated, apparently.
However if you are a Homosexual who is struggling and wants to talk about things and you aren't afraid to listen to God's honest truth then you are more than welcome. ...to come listen to my loony bullshit.
Ah the good ol' lesbian deathstyle... Waaait, please explain?
So bascially you're a fucked up prude that doesn't want to have sex, and want to talk to guys that don't like having sex with women. Who are you, Katie Holmes?
Dear Helen,
Living in a closet may make you feel better about yourself but it still means that you are not being the person you really are. Perhaps you should spend less time listening to superstitions and start paying attention to your own inner voice. In the long run you will be happier with who you are, even though you will have to accept that there are people who hate you for that same reason.
Dan Savage, a gay guy who writes a deliciously pervy sex advice column, offered a great suggestion for shutting up a fundie who claims that there are such people as "ex-gays" who have left their homosexual lifetsyle because of conversion to christianity. Just ask, "Would you want your daughter to marry one?"
Dearest Helen, It's called going back into the closet, you stupid bitch.
Goddess Bless,
Donna (ex straight, wink wink)
Who are you trying to convince, Helen, your audience or yourself? And why is "Homosexual Deathstyle" capitalized? As a sign of respect, perhaps?
She is really, really trying to convince herself she no longer is attracted to women. Helen you are gay. Love yourself and get over it. My advice is get out of posting on christian websites or else your self hatred will get so bad you will commit suicide. Those christians out there are NOT going to love you. You are gay!
Leaving the deathstyle
Wow! 3 words, and I'm already reading a 9.8 on the Asshole Meter!
I'm Just a "noob..."
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...but I know I can do this.
Do what?
I've been reading some otf the arugments against leaving the homosexual lifestyle...
Here's an argument against leaving the homosexual lifestyle: If you're gay, you will always be gay. There is only one door out of the homosexual lifestyle, and it's not an exit door it's the closet door. You will always be gay, whether you deny it or not. Instead of leaving the "homosexual lifestyle" and pretending to be straight, why don't you just admit who you are and ignore the bigots who tell you that it's somehow wrong to be gay.
And if you can't simply ignore them, maybe you could fuck 'em. Homophobic bigots turn out to be closeted gays more often than you think. Just look at Ted Haggard!
...(which I'll call the Homosexual Deathstyle from now on)
Argumentum ad Slogan? Sorry, it doesn't work. It's a subset of the ad hominem fallacy and therefore not a valid argument. If you want me to take you seriously, you'd better have a valid (and sound) argument.
...and I just can't believe so many people are deceived by the Devil.
You know, that's funny. I actually agree.
Zero people have been deceived by the devil, and there is no evidence that the devil even exists, so I can't believe that anyone has been deceived by him.
Especially those who can call themselves Christians.
Well, Christians are the only people who believe that the devil exists...
All the studies and statistics in the world can be used to prove anything one way or another...
Not quite. You can use deliberately flawed studies to turn up any "results" you want, but someone will check your facts.
...but what really matters is what happens in a persons actual life.
Yeah. That doesn't change the fact that sexual orientation is an inborn and unchangeable trait, though.
I would like to start this thread so that people will know that leaving the Deathstyle is possible.
No it isn't. Sexual orientation cannot be changed. The most you can do is deny it. Look at Ted Haggard. He acted like an ordinary straight person for years, and even ranted against homosexual people. Then he cracked.
If you're gay, you always will be. If you deny it, you'll be miserable. Maybe you'll crack like Ted did.
I left it behind when I found Christ.
You may have left the "homosexual lifestyle" when you became a Christian, but if you were gay before, you still are. "Christ" is just a fancy decoration for your closet.
Of course, I'd be willing to speculate that you are (and always were) straight and that you were always Christian.
I want to encourage other people on this board to contribute to the thread thier own personal testimony of leaving Homosexuality.
Ooh goodie. A thread of straight people telling harrowing tall tales of how they used to be gay before Jay-zoos came in and saved them, and miserable closeted gay people proclaiming that Jesus made them straight whilst trying to force attraction to their wives.
I KNOW there are many on this board who have.
Well, you're wrong.
If you're some kind of skeptic I'm not really interested in hearing from you.
Ah, yes. "I know I'm right, so don't say anything unless you agree with me."
And these morons have the nerve to call us arrogant!
However if you are a Homosexual who is struggling...
Struggling? Try and get this through your narrow little mind: The only reason a gay person would be "struggling" because of their sexual orientation would be because bigots like you are constantly telling them that being gay is wrong somehow.
...and wants to talk about things...
Talk about things with the bigots who make them feel like shit and treat them like second-class citizens in the first place?
...and you aren't afraid to listen to God's honest truth...
Sorry, God doesn't exist.
...then you are more than welcome.
With an offer like that, who can refuse? Maybe you should throw in a complimentary dose of cholera.
God Bless,
Fuck you too.
Helen
Maronan.
If I hear one more person utter the words "homosexual deathstyle" one more time, they will wish they were, in fact, dead.
"If you're some kind of skeptic I'm not really interested in hearing from you."
You profess an idea as truth and refuse to have it questioned.
That really says a lot Moonglovv.
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