There is a guy at my church who is married with 2 children... HE IS NOT GAY, nor as far as I know ever been. However his voice and mannerisms are very, very feminine. There is no way you could look at this guy and think he was straight, yet he is. He talks against homosexuality and has even talked about where our country is headed with this and he doesn't like it. However he never mentions anything about his own highly feminine traits. Where do these traits come from? I'm sure he didn't practice and practice till he was able to act like a girl. I'm confused, how did he get to be so feminine? Where did these traits come from if he wasn't born with them? I don't understand this.