Re: Incel lurker who hates this culture

(gigatruecel)

But there’s more to me and more to my life than having sex. I love my family. I love video games, podcasts, theatre, music, animals, rain, reading, etc.

This is what we mean when we say cope. It's not just sex. It's a lack of romantic and social intimacy. This is shit human beings need to feel sane.

We're not saying everyone sucks. Half the shit on this sub is just memes. But you're fucking coping if you think you can live a happy and fulfilling life without intimacy and social relationships. You fucking can't, and you have NO idea what you're missing out on.

It's another world entirely. Falling asleep staring into the eyes of someone who loves you and trusts you completely. It's the essence of the human experience. Why do you think history is filled with love stories and romanticism? It is one of the strongest emotions we can feel, connecting with another person at that intimate level is critical for our well-being.

We are denied these experiences because we are ugly and/or short. Our lives are a fucking joke.

(ShallowEcho)
"childish made-up terminology" - Aka I can't be bothered to read up the shit and since I don't understand it I need someone to spoon-feed me, wah wah I'm a 21 yo manbaby.

"Anyone who tries to look on the bright side and actually be happy is “coping” - If you base your happiness in false premises you're fucking coping, no way around that. Reality is tough and while plenty of females won't admit to these awful rough things, the fact of the matter is that those superficial "horrid" thoughts are what guide their mate selection, you can keep the "not all wamehn" cope as long as you want you'll eventually come to terms with it.

"Don't go for those women" - You're implying there are women we can go for, fact of the matter is, unless you're someone who literally has 0 self-steem and wants to be stepped on and cucked, you probably aren't gonna really find anyone in your life if you're an ugly fuck. If you earn enough income and lack the self steem you can find some femoid that will fuck you a couple times and then see some chadster behind your back while you bankroll her, that's the best you can hope in an "optimist" scenario. You're talking out of your ass.

"But there’s more to me and more to my life than having sex."- This proves to me you don't even fucking know what the deal is. It's not about finding someone to fuck, you can pay hookers for that, it's about finding a relationship you big fucking mongo. It's like you took a big chug of IT and just came here in your soy-fueled rage to dump a fucking paragraph no how fucking retarded and out of touch with this community you are, and you do so in a hillariously sad fucking way because you're also trying to teach a lesson without having even learned who you're talking to. Get a fucking grip man.

(Salusa-Secundus)
Retard, women can be nice to you but they'll never be attracted to you. This is what we mean. They aren't all bitches to lower tier men but they'd all sooner fuck the tall handsome Trump supporter over us,.even if they were feminists.

There are white supremacists getting laid RIGHT NOW while you rot away in misery.

why would i want to sleep with/have a relationship with someone who would sleep with a white supremacist? My point is, I don't care if awful women sleep with awful men. They can have each other. Women are more complex than you give them credit for. Humankind as a whole has a variety of people. And women are human. ergo, there are different women with differing preferences. Some may prefer racists, but others prefer feminists, to use your example. They can't all be painted with such a broad brush.

Richard Spencer (you know him) has a LIBERAL girlfriend. Half of Reddit is basically male feminist virgins and he's having way more success than them.

All women are awful by that metric. They can be nice and even friends with you but they'll always pick the guy they are attracted to, at least for sex.

Face it boyo.

THEY PREFER THE GUY THEY WANT TO FUCK. Doesn't matter for shit what kind of person they are.

(enjoy_life88)
This is just another IT meme - "I'm a virgin, but at least I'm not an incel!"

I’m 21 years old
I love video games, podcasts, theatre, music, animals, rain, reading, etc.

You're coping, just like all of us. No one said there are not other things in life that one can enjoy, to forget about the fundemental things your life is lacking. That IS coping.

But add 10 years. The effect of copes will fade. The void inside you will get bigger and bigger.

Get off your high horse, fren.

(MayflyEng)

I don't enjoy self identifying as an incel for the same reason a woman may avoid the title of feminist. People who fit under the umbrella take the word too far and apply unwanted context to it. If you say you're a feminist people hear feminazi. If you say you're an incel, people hear woman-hating ephebophile.

I suppose i object to the word cope because of the context that surrounds it as well. A incel can't find joy in something without someone commenting and reminding him that his life is terrible and the thing he finds joy in is really only a distraction. But for me personally, I think I'd enjoy the things I mentioned regardless of relationships or not. Maybe I'd enjoy them less often, because I'd have a relationship to fill my time, but I'd still enjoy them.

And maybe you're right about time being a deciding factor in my "naivete". I can't see the future, but i think I'm overall a decent enough person to find someone before I'm 31.

You're probably fakecel then.

What has given you this hope you will find someone by 30?

You're probably not actually incel if people haven't crushed that hope out of you.

How many times have you been rejected by your looksmatch?

Edit: not sure how someone who's 5'2 still has hope lol unless they have a model tier face, and even then... Good for you I guess. One day that'll be gone and it will hurt.

I've 5'2", somewhat overweight, no muscle mass, a very plain-ugly face, kicked out of college, so poor I'm straddling the poverty line, and I don't have a car. But I'm also a good person. As long as I've got that going for me, I still have hope

Cope. Most of the people here are good people. In fact the majority of the world is good people. It doesn't get you anything.

Women even go for murderers over incels, but you won't see anyone here tell people to bundymaxx

Lose the weight. Fatcel is volcel, but IDK if it matters at 5'2. Still good for quality of life though.

Good luck with the poverty.