I hate when men use “theory of mind”, it only ever demonstrates how they themselves lack theory of mind. Not agreeing with or tolerating someone’s behaviors doesn’t mean you are completely oblivious to what, how, and why they behave the way they do. Criminal psychologists for example can develop a very accurate model for the minds of murderers, and the fact that they aren’t condoning and enabling murdering doesn’t mean they’re bad at their job.
It’s the same moid logic that has them parading around their “toxic empathy” talking point. They just lack a robust sense of self and have no principles, and believe if you understand someone/something that means you have to comply and obey. No wonder they’re so submissive and love hierarchies. If someone tells them what to do they’ll do it, so their only defense they have is refusing to listen. Then when women don’t fall in line with what they want, they just project and say she lacks the willingness or capacity to listen.
If he’s right he should be damn thankful. Women projecting a greater level of humanity on moids than they actually possess benefits moids infinitely more than not. Little disruptive Timmy getting his feeling hurt after reprimanded because his teacher “expects better of him” is the same type of woman who thinks she can bring her abusive husband to the light if she just could just coax it out of him. Go ahead and take away women’s grace by forcing them to accept male primitive nature. Timmy will be happy when you stop trying to force him to read and let him snack other boys with sticks, until he grows up and can’t find a replacement mommy to take care of his violent, illiterate ass.