I just stumbled on a YouTube video of a girl talking about she had 20+ jobs and she wasn't able to fit in because she's pretty and has to deal with catty women. I'm just going to be a bit blunt and correct me if I'm wrong but, I'd take the pretty girl "curse" any day than the torment I go through for being ugly. I understand everything has its advantages and disadvantages but the advantages of being pretty beats the disadvantages. I can't even get a temporary job yet there is someone who can hop scotch from job to job even being a brand embassador? Talk about life on easy mode for these women.
I've gotten more attractive in the last 7 years but before that I was picked on constantly and treated like crap by my peers, particularly men.
My biggest problem now as an "attractive woman" is how annoying it is when guys persistently hit on me. Its not comparable to how shitty it feels the other way around. These people couldn't even begin to imagine how awful it is to be an outcast all because you're not pretty enough. Talk about soul crushing.
I agree with you sis. Also congratulations on maxxing
I hate it when they play the victim. Girl, your entire worth is your looks and yet you somehow think they are a curse??? Lmao, try living a week without them and then tell me how it went.
They know it but will play I don't know what wha wha card
Yeah I may come across as harsh but I really don't give a shit about their apparent #prettygirlproblems. Like I feel a lot of the issues they complain about are exaggerated or rooted more in their individual personalities as oppose to them actually being pretty. From what I've seen women tend to flock to attractive women and want to befriend them, they also automatically find them more trustworthy and give ugly women all the negative connotations of 'jealous, bitter' etc. They also have had so many people treat them with so much kindness that when they encounter somebody who treats them like the average joe, and assume (if it's a woman) that she must be jealous. If it irks them so much when women are catty towards them then they can come together with us and deconstruct lookism to the best of our ability, thus in turn removing capitilism, patriachy and so on. But they won't because they know the pros outway the cons for them.
Tbh most people who I've encountered who have catty, condescending and rude have been pretty women. I think just a quick look online can show numerous pretty women with horrible personalities. They know they have a privilege and I wish we could take that away for a day, and let them see how geniunely awful it is to be an ugly woman.
Sadly when you begin to talk about how badly ugly women are treated they shut their ears wiggle their heads saying nope, it's your problem you have no confidence. I knew this Naomi (light skin) who claimed to be a humanitarian and caring about mental health and individual struggles to be extra likable and I tried to talk about the struggles I face, and she had the "amused" facial expression and told me that all women get the same treatment and ugly girls or their problems are non existent. Mind you while I was telling her about problems that I as an ugly girl go through and others, she had the most unamused facial expression only to act shock in the end. These women know the pros of being attractive outweigh the cons yet they'll play "muh don't know what you are talking about" card. They know it and I respect someone like Cynde Black who acknowledged the fact.
PS: This Naomi lives off a betabuxx as well.. No shit freaking Sherlock.
Give me pretty problems any day