(From r/SemenRetention, a MGTOW cult that not ejaculating gives you superpowers notably and ironically including chick magnetism, in response to another poster lamenting that he had been seduced into breaking his celebacy.)
It sounds like you have a Succubus. This is not uncommon at all. These types of spirits linger within your subconscious mind, and can be the result of you seeing porn at one time in your life. Or it could have been picked up during sexual intercourse with someone at a certain time. Perhaps it was passed down to you through your family line, or even attacking you out of the astral realm because it senses your strong energy and it wants it. Only you know deep down. Now the Succubus is manifesting itself in the physical world as someone like you described in your post. Props on you for recognizing the pattern and it's technique. They are difficult to remove, I'm not going to lie. This is no laughing matter as I'm sure you are aware of by now. These spirits are everywhere, and most men have them as girlfriends or wives, so you are already ahead of the game by being single. You can see the same spirits when you go to the mall, or the grocery store, or the beach, or when you look at the hot girls on Instagram and Facebook. They wear sexy clothes, and they look sexy, and you and every other man look at them and lust after them. You are a more difficult target for them because you abstain, and are on the right path, that's why it does that to you with its lies and getting you right where it hurts. Most men are living with them, and have sold their souls to their succubus in the form of life or marriage commitments. Stay strong and do not give in. You must realize that any woman you encounter is possibly a Succubus. You must protect yourself at all costs. Make no mistake about it, it wants your semen, (vital energy), and it will stop at nothing to get it from you. That is the truth. It's not fair, but due to the amount of porn in the world today and basically every man having sex, and getting women pregnant with girls is passing these things along to them. They get stronger and more powerful each time you or any other man ejaculates outside of the holy bond of marriage. To clear yourself of this succubus you need to read the holy books, fast often, and guard your eyes from any lustful images, even in real life. Get out in nature, and do not use any sort of drugs. Do not use curse words. And make sure you pray to a higher power for protection and cleanliness. Drink plenty of clean water, and avoid movies, and all types of music.