I’m AMAB, so I suppose this idiot would call me a “man.” So using that metric, let’s see:
* I’ve spent most of my life poor.
* I’m of average appearance at my best; less so since getting out of shape & losing a tooth in a car accident.
* I’m genderqueer & pansexual, generally seen as effeminate.
* I’m a feminist, actively fighting things like domestic abuse, sexual abuse, and gender inequality even when there’s no women around to see me doing it.
So I’m no “Chad.” And yet, from the age of 16, I never went more than a couple of months without at least one partner - often more than one, being poly & pan - in a fulfilling, highly active sexual relationship. And in only one of those instances was I the one who initiated the relationship, meaning I was the others’ first choice. (Because let’s face it, people aren’t going to actively seek out partners, invest their time & money in dating, and maintain the relationship for months or years with no benefit other than companionship, if they don’t ACTUALLY want to be with that person.)
As much as you deluded incel types want to claim otherwise, a lot of your problem is your absolutely toxic & off-putting attitude.