“.. we can't really condone religions that we know lead people into eternity apart from God....”
Well, you’re TOLD that, and you believe that, but you don’t really KNOW that. You’ve no evidence for that substantially differs from their evidence for their superstition.
And aside from what you condone ‘as a Christain,’ as an American you need to tolerate those religious freedoms that you enjoy.
"it's cruel to not give them the truth because at least if we tell the truth of the gospel they may repent and be forgiven....”
You mean give them YOUR truth. They already have a truth. How do you feel about THEM telling YOU that you’re going to Eternal Darkness for YOUR errors?
"but if we say nothing to those we know headed down the wrong track....”
You get along a lot better.
“is it because we care about them or because we care about ourselves?”
Pretty sure you’re doing all this preaching about yourself. It’s all about YOU Being RIGHT and God seeing how much you love Him.
"Being confrontational is uncomfortable but so is an eternity away from God.”
So, your superstition suppports you being your true self, an asshole. How lucky for you.
You COULD make the gospel available without confrontation, maybe God will spark their curiosity to come find out what you know.
But you’d rather make a stink, wouldn’t you?
“Always love people enough to share the truth with them.”
Which, again, does not require confrontation. You guys are the ones bitching about ‘the homosexual freedom’ being ‘shoved down (your) throats.’ But think God wants to be shoved down THEIR throats?