RE: [Hypocrisy] Even reddit cucks agree looks mean more than persoynality

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AITA for insinuating that my daughter is 'ugly'?

The title sounds bad but it isn't that bad.

So my daughter has this friend who has all the kids in her grade falling head over heels for. I thought it was an exaggeration but she's literally that girl in high school.

Now this friend posted a picture of the two of them on their 'friendship page' on her birthday yesterday. Everyone was just giving dozens of comments on the friend and said nothing about my daughter at all. I think there were only two who said happy birthday to my daughter. She was upset over this because she got non of the attention. She asked me if she was pretty.

As first I thought I should give the whole 'of course, you're so beautiful, these guys are just crazy' speech but I couldn't see any benefit from that so I gave it to her straight. When I told her she wasn't she was taken aback but when I explained she was much better. I said something around the lines that she doesn't have the looks but that doesn't matter. Told her she had an amazing personality and is just an amazing girl. I pointed out that she had the world's greatest eyes (might biased but it's true) and that her smile is contagious (which it is). Mentioned that I wasn't a looker when I was a teenager but my confidence got it me places. She was a bit quiet but she thanked me for it. We laughed, hugged and I left feeling like I gave the greatest parent speech ever.

However when I told my wife this she went mad. She says I was basically insinuating that she was ugly (Didn't say it nor do I think she is) with the classic 'personality matters' speech. I still think I did great. Aita?

After my wife went to 'fix my mess', my daughter told her that she was fine and felt better after my talk with her.

Looks is all that matters. But this hole will never have to face a single problem in her life because even though she is ugly, she still has a pussy and that's enough.

If the daughter was a son, the comments would have been different.

Exactly.

Now the comments are - "You are the asshole. How dare you call your daughter ugly. Stupid father."

If he had a son, the comments would've been -
"Sweetie you are not the asshole. Personality is all that matters, I see ugly guys with gfs all the time. You gave such a great advice. Aww."

They simply don't want men to know the brutal truth that "looks is all that matters". They just want to gaslight us and keep us in the dark.