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The concepts of "friends" and "love" are scams.

I am convinced that both "friends" and "love" and other shit like that were actually purposefully invented to scam honest people. Or "suckers" as manipulative assholes call them. Unfortunately, a large part of humanity are actually manipulative assholes, or even something worse.

There are somewhat honest and easily lied to and manipulated people, few and far between. Those get sold the idea of friendship and love, and they suffer immensely from it.

Friends will always ask for help and shit from you, while rarely if ever helping you in return. While I didn't have friends to experience it first-hand, I did read a lot of such testimonies and heard them too.

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Purposefully invented by whom? And before you say “the Jew” (or some antisemitic dogwhistle), no, documented belief in these concepts predate Judaism by far.

"Good friends help you bury a body,,, Great friends bring their own shovel and don't ask any questions."

The title makes you pity these wretched dolts, at least for a second. People who don’t understand the concepts of friends and love, are clearly very far from understanding the concept of mutual attraction, shared interests, harmony, which are crucial to a loving relationship.

Scam? How? People like to be with certain people, like to spend time together, have fun together, long to meet if there is a long time between meeting each other. That’s what we call friendship.

Love is a stronger feeling, a deeper feeling. You can love friends, of course, close friends who are like siblings. Love for parents, actual siblings and children, grandparents, etc, is pretty common. But nonny here is probably talking about love for a partner. As soooo many people have written songs, books, plays, sonnets, etc about love, for thousands of years, it’s clearly not a fabrication, but something that most people feel. Perhaps you have a bit of psychopathy in you, dearie?

Honest people are not “incels”. Honest people treat others with kindness and respect.

What would be gained by fabricating concepts of love and friendship, if they didn’t really exist?

No, friends will ask to help you with shit. Have you asked them for help in return? Not as a tit for tat, just asking for a lift home or a cup of coffee when you forgot your wallet, and not gotten it? Have you ever offered to help someone (without any ulterior motive)?

I have never had that Best Friends experience, but I have had friends, and colleagues that I’m still “friends” with on Facebook a decade after we stopped working together. (I put friends in bracket there, as FB “friends” is not the same as actually friends, though people can be both.)

Just today I got a lift home, as it rained last night, then it began to snow and the temperature fell below freezing (veery slippery), so I didn’t think it was safe to take the bike to work, as I haven’t got the winter-tires on yet.

As I haven’t had that many close friends, I’m unaccustomed to offering help, or offering to buy another round at the bar, stuff like that. In real life, I’m a quiet and introvert person, and often the subject has moved too far away from what I wanted to say, before I can pluck up the courage to say it. That is on me; the others are not being deliberately “manipulative” or “assholes”.

"Friends will always ask for help and shit from you, while rarely if ever helping you in return. While I didn't have friends to experience it first-hand, I did read a lot of such testimonies and heard them too."

Um, if friends NEVER help out, what do you mean by 'in return?' That suggests that at least some times, the notional 'you' does do favors when asked. So your whole premise is blown.

My longest-time friend still has some of my crap from when my family's home was foreclosed on. Another friend was the one thing that kept me from being on the street when my university money ran out. I was on his couch for weeks. My very best friend has been an emotional anchor through a ton of life. And I've done plenty for them in return, from professional executive assisting to putting in a hand with construction.

What's this idiot's problem?

That's the longest running scam then and a very persistent one at that.

Except in the milder cases, people with B-cluster personality disorders get little or nothing from “mere” companionship. They require more direct/tangible benefits from someone in order to meaningfully associate with them, preferably without the other person “leeching” (expecting non-superficial connection and emotional labor as part of the relationship). Whatever concepts they have of love and friendship are very shallow and self-centered and don’t match most other peoples’ concept of them. Because they can’t imagine anything else. Meanwhile, a lot of them are actual emotional leeches; it may look like hypocrisy or projection, but is quite often a complete lack of awareness.

If someone like this is alone and miserable, it’s because they’re subtly dangerous and they’ve been at least partially contained.

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