[Blackpill] Being incel has taught me EXTREME PATIENCE (hypothesis)

I use to never understand why all women (and some men) are in a rush, in debt, impulsive, bored easily, and it made me realize, its because they've always had their base needs such as water, food, shelter, affection, social acceptance, intimacy and sex have always been met, so they cannot handle not getting what they want right now.

When you go without some of these base needs for years and years, even decades, what does it do to you?

Your mind & body becomes accustom to never being able to get base needs, desire after desire, thought after thought, being blocked from intimacy, being blocked from affection, blocked from sex, everyday you crave it, you don't get it, weeks go on like this, months, years, decades, and eventually not getting those base needs met, your brain develops (in a torture-like brutal mental state destroying way) the ability to understand that you cannot get what you want, even if you crave it everyday, you become accustom to not being able to get what you want right now, for years and years. This is especially true if you never developed a drug, alcohol or prostitute habit.

I believe my life of inceldom is why I never developed the materialistic lifestyle, how can I care about those extra things, trinkets, gadgets, etc, when my base needs have never been met? If you're starving from lack of affection, intimacy, touch, etc - and craving it for your entire teens, 20s, and 30s, and still haven't got it, why would you care about materialistic shit? I believe for me I can't move onto materialism until I am getting base needs met in an intimate relationship with a female.