So let's get this straight... you're all for the Bury Your Gays Trope
Let's just ignore Vastra and Jenny from Doctor Who
Let's ignore Thelma Bates from Hex (although, sadly, every gay character ends up as a ghost on that show, despite Thelma having character conflict)
Let's ignore Steven Universe, and She Ra and the Princesses of Power.
And that's not getting into all the shipping fans get up to.