basically guys into "femdom" femdom (think PVC, cbt, the meme worthy stuff) are c tier men who are obnoxious and petulant outside of sex, and are generally worse to women than they are to men, without the success/value to match. high school tier mentality.
if "soft femdom" is more your thing you will eventually notice that a lot of that overlaps with 'mommy' stuff. maybe far more tolerable people but possibly more deranged.
not a comment on kinks/fetishes/lifestyles but an observation about the men who are into those things.

Men being annoying parasites is common in general and more so if they are outspoken about sexual fetishes. It really doesn't matter which one they prefer. Men wanting to believe they're a big bad dom kang, guys shrieking mommy over any woman with a hint of muscle, hooking up with randoms at orgies, psychos jerking off in the middle of public parks, foot fags. If you're in a social community dedicated to any of those things, solely looking to hook up with women based on those things and otherwise advertising your fetish to the world (like in a dating app profile), you are deranged. It goes for both sexes although obviously men are worse. The reason it's better to bring up femdom scenarios with 'normie' men is precisely because they are normal. Even the women here who say they must always have femdom sex or are okay with casual encounters surrounding their fetish even with gross men freely admit they are not mentally well.
>men… generally worse to women than they are to men
that's literally all men. I'm not defending outspoken sub guys I'm just saying they're no better or worse than a person forming their entire identity around any kink. Liking the same things does not guarantee compatibility on a personal basis.