( IrishTheFrenchie )
If you live somewhere where you can't have a female only event, leave the event open to all "women" and let the TIMs come. Then, because the group is "too large", divide everyone into two groups. The TIMs get to only speed date other TIMs. The women get to speed date other women.
If TIMs complain, it proves they don't see themselves as women. Because if they did, they'd be happy to date a transbian.
I know the best outcome is to be able to exclude these perverts from the get go, but if you can't...
( mathlover )
You have to expend a lot of time and effort to find and separate out lesbians who want to keep TIMS excluded. You go to "inclusive" spaces repeatedly to identify those lesbians - and verify that they are trustworthy - and set up private gatherings.
This takes time. And it is a lot of work. But eventually there is a growing group of lesbians the larping men will never have access to. This is what lesbians had to do so many years ago. We can do it again. We have to.
( Carrots90 )
I love this
When they complain, pretend not to know what they mean
“How do you know without a genital check”
( VestalVirgin )
Get a photo of each participant, or better, have a video chat with them.
Rent two locations. The TIMs go to the location you announced beforehand. The actual women go to the other, which is told to them via e-mail.
Of course you'd have to ask women if they are there with someone, and if they are there with TIMs, allocate them to the TIM group.
(Also, it would be good to have a pool of handmaidens who can be recruited to keep the TIMs happy and prevent them from suspecting something. Of course without telling them that's what they're there for. Just invite them for free because they have "done so much for feminism" or some shit. From what I gather, many women on Ovarit are friends with handmaidens whom they haven't told they don't believe in gender religion. Might be hard with lesbian speed dating, but easier for women only music festivals and the like.)
Ok, if you mingle TIMs with handmaidens, that doesn't expose their hypocrisy, but I believe keeping them happy is the better way if you want a women only event.
They very much do not care about being exposed as hypocrites, they'd still have temper tantrums and demand to get to molest some actual lesbians.