. If someone kills innocent civilians it's a war crime and a crime against humanity and he doesn't need to be anywhere else but jail. 'Loving' someone as much despite that means you don't care about that and have no place judging anyone for anything pretty much ever. I don't know what the hell you're on about about war being a nasty business. You don't need to kill civilians. Noone does.
My god the naïveté here is mind boggling. You need a swift kick in the ass from reality. War crimes? In Vietnam soldiers were INSTRUCTED to leave noone alive in villages. They were given body count quotas, pregnant women counted as 2. And heros rescuing comrades were not the only ones awarded medals; not to mention how they resued them often came at the expense of taking more lives. This is WAR there arent rules, there arent clearly defined lines between good and bad. Wake the fuck up and pull your head out of your ass. The world sucks, its kill or be killed, and with your attitude you'll end up one of the latter.