FDS GUIDE. Non-mainstream opinions and strategies held by this sub.

FDSers believe that the man should pay for the dates. And should be responsible for significantly more than half of the expenses in the relationship.

FDSers believe that a woman should delay sex with a new guy for at least 6weeks to 2months (potentially even longer) for better chances at getting a relationship.

FDSers do not support the sexual degradation of women under the guise of “consensual BDSM”.

FDSers do not support being upfront about a woman’s sexual past/sexual history. No matter how many men you’ve fucked in the past, your answer whenever a new guy asks, should range from 3-5. Would point out that a guy even petty enough to ask in the first place, is a red flag on its own.

FDSers advocate for the woman puting herself first. You, as a woman have inherent value and as such, you’re the prize. He should work to earn your love, respect and commitment. A man that you have to chase is not a man worth having.

FDSers do not believe in any kind of male pandering of any kind. The advice and tactics prescribed here, are for women and for the benefit of women primarily.

FDS is not a debate sub. We don’t care about your alternate opinions. And the fact that we would rather not listen to them, doesn’t take away the validity of its teachings. There are many other debate subs on reddit. Go there instead.

FDS is amoral. If a woman wants to date multiple men, we see nothing wrong in it. In fact, we encourage it for those women that find themselves falling too hard too quickly for one guy. Or find themselves in clearly toxic relationships that they’ve been finding difficult to leave. Starting to see a new guy sometimes helps distract from the one you’re with and can lift the veil and provide fresh clarity on the fact that it’s time to leave him.