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[JFL] Feminists complain about being "parentified" as daughters -- that is, actually taught how to cook and clean, and take care of their siblings

It's funny because these are the only skills that are useful for females to know: nurturing children, preparing food, and maintaining a tidy nest despite their messy, hoarding tendencies (which otherwise lead them to buy tons of useless shit and be Shlomo's favorite consumer).

If they don't want these things to be so offset onto them during childhood, then why are they feminists who champion the entry of females into the workforce, which necessarily overburdens mothers and forces them, if not to hire nannies (a commodified caretaker), then make one out of their daughters?

And what of the fact that children are increasingly deprived of fathers, and many men are forced to be their own fathers in life if they even want a chance at turning out mentally healthy, and many women are compelled to foolishly project father figures onto psychopathic slayers on Tinder who just abuse them and make them insane? Is this what "ending the patriarchy" is supposed to be about?

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Cooking and cleaning are life skills that would be useful for many people to know, should they have a hope of being independent.
When it's being forced on the sisters while the brothers get to mess around, however, it's very much unfair.
To this day, I'm still kind of annoyed that my brothers actively expected me to do the washing up for them.
Now they live on their own, so they have to do it themselves, thank goodness.

Basically, it's your home, so do your own dumb housework.
Or share the responsibilities, should you actually be living with someone.

There are plenty of women who can provide in ways that don't involve cooking, cleaning or bringing up children.
Even then, the cooking and cleaning professions are not for weenies, nor is being a parent.
Or does being paid for it mean it's no longer "women's work"? Ugh.

My parents taught all six of their kids (4 boys, 2 girls) to cook, clean, do laundry, etc. We guys knew how keep from dying all our clothes pink, which many of our college roommates didn’t. We were able to take care of ourselves after college, which was a good thing as two of us didn’t get married until we were almost 30. My experience with most “feminists” is that their only objection to being taught such skills when young was frustration that their brothers weren’t taught the same. Maybe when you move out of your mom’s basement, you’ll realize how important such skills can be.

So women want relationships but men just want sex right? How is pushing cooking and cleaning onto women make things more even then? If anything, it ups the ante for men who will need to be in relationships so they're healthy. What do men offer to make women want to be in a relationship with them?

There’s a difference between being taught to take care of yourself and how to take care of others… and being taught that your life only really has meaning in the tasks involved in taking care of others. And of course there’s always the double standard concerning housework. I mean for shit’s sake apparently a great deal of men are afraid to separate their recyclables because they think it makes them look gay. That’s stupid.

Also I have reservations about what you might consider “mentally healthy” for men. Particularly as I suspect you’d be afraid to separate your recycling for the mentioned reason… if you could be assed to do it in the first place.

No, feminists complain about boys NOT being taught these important life-skills; how to actually cook and clean and take care of their siblings.

It’s as far away from funny as possible. Girls have higher grades than boys on average, get higher education, study longer and more, are more experienced, and still, it’s the mediocre guys that get the high-paying jobs, and women are told they ought to focus on nurturing children and cooking food, when they complain.

So, no men ever hoard stuff? No guy in the world has a garage, a workshop or a recreational lounge full of mechanical parts, tools, gaming stuff, comics in plastic envelops, rockabilly memorabilia, old records, posters, etc. etc. etc.?

Again, BOYS need to be taught how to cook and clean and take care of kids TOO; it’s just as useful for them as it is for females to know. Men and women ought to SHARE the work at home. Women want to make their own money, be part of a workplace, have colleagues, just as men do. I don’t know how many times I’ve heard women coming back from a year’s parental leave, and sighing with bliss about being back with ADULTS, having routines and breaks and people to talk to!!! (Most men climb the walls in desperation after just five or six months’ parental leave.)

How can children be increasingly deprived of fathers, when the mothers work more? Men are MORE involved in their children’s lives now than they have ever been before. When patriarchy was stronger, the father was almost invisible, just a shadowy scary figure that doled out punishments, and perhaps gave out a weekly allowance. Now, men are ALSO on parental leave, they change diapers, feed and burp their babies, take them on strolls in the pram, teach them how to walk and run, how to read and write, they show both boys and girls what a present and loving father is. And yes, THIS is what “ending the patriarchy” is supposed to be about.

Textbook Dunning-Kruger. What this post reads like:
A: The sky is green.
B:Uh, no.
A: Why do you insist the sky is brown???

Also, parentification is a very different matter from having chores. AMHIK.