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Average Dad #transphobia #fundie pittparents.com

As PITT parents we share your pain and agony, trans is one of the worst things ever foisted onto society, forcing your mom and dad to call you wrong pronouns and a new name. Trans is to humanity what Islam is to Christianity and the broader society, calling what is good, evil, calling what is evil, good, not creative, not building, not striving, not empowerment, not bettering yourself or anyone else, just pure decay, destruction and death. All I can do is keep hope alive for my daughter and yours, as I walk this cursed, sad, broken hearted, lonely road, pretty much alone. It's truly unbelievable, unimaginable. God help us all!

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia #psycho pittparents.com

[E]ven if we achieved total victory today—no new transings at any age, Nuremberg-style punishment for offenders, gender ideology in the trashcan—these successes won’t hide one brutal reality: we’ll still live in a world where thousands of young people have already been damaged. Those are our kids, trudging around like broken dolls, trying to make lives for themselves at age 20, 30, 40, and beyond—some alienated from loved ones, some haunting their families like a ghost. And don’t forget those who didn’t survive. Even with their likely shortened life expectancies, what will survivors do for the next year, decade, half-century? What will we do? How will we all live? Could history guide us in a post-trans era?

PITT Parents #transphobia pittparents.com

On your phone, I didn’t know
Their lie it would grow.

Then in real life
The lie would cut like a knife.

They took your behind closed doors
And soon began the wars.

What they said, who knows-
I was told not to impose.

Your hand I could not hold,
Your heart now felt cold.

They said it was for you,
And I should believe it too.

I didn’t get a reason,
Only threats - and that I was a demon.

Questions they didn’t ask,
All while wearing masks.

I’m sorry I didn’t have the answers,
And I lost most of my manners.

I didn’t know the lies they told
I wish I never let go of my hold.

Your hand-it slipped away,
It felt like in just a day.

But I’m still here;
I’ll always be near.

I know more now.
Please forgive me somehow

For the things I should have never done,
And what I failed to do for you, my hun.

Love,
Mom

Karole #transphobia #homophobia #fundie pittparents.com

The in-God's-face-with-the-middle-finger started in earnest with three things: 1) the perversion of God's seven-color rainbow with the six-color LGBTQ rainbow 2) called Pride which God hates; 3) that celebrates behaviors that are in complete rejection of God's purpose in creating man and woman in the beginning and us individually now. Especially interesting to me is that Satan is, as always, mimicking what God does - he gives those captured by and sacrificed to his trans cult a new name. Their new name is Satan's name for them that identifies them as his. I can't verify this in Scripture, but I think calling them by their new name affirms and somehow strengthens Satan's power over them. My guess is that pagan/witchcraft/Satanism practice do that, but I don't know for sure. What I do know is that I no longer pray for deliverance of the trapped people I know by their new names.

PITT Parents #pratt #transphobia pittparents.com

When you say deadname
Hate is the claim

For part of you, you wish dead
And everything you wish to shed

You don’t understand
I cannot hate you on command

When you say deadname, you see gender
This is something I cannot render

When you say deadname, I see you
An infant swaddled and feelings I never knew

I see your handwriting
And thoughts you were citing

I see your stocking hung by the tree
Your eyes with wonder, bright as can be

I see your tears in a project, proudly on display
Among many lined up in the hallway

I see you in bed, cozy and warm, hair a mess
And your mind at rest

So you see, this is what I see
Please don’t hate me

I see your friend standing at the door
Asking for you to go and explore

I see your bravery, growth and strength
Standing on the risers though your voice may shake

I see a reel of your birthday cakes
And my heart aches

I see your struggles, joy and pain on stage
As a gaze upon the graduation page

So you see, this is what I see
Please don’t hate me

Others say I am mean
How can that be?

They can’t see you
The way that I do

From the moment I knew of you, till beyond time
I love all of you, how is that a crime?

I don’t blame you for their lie
They told you, change your name or die

So you see, this is what I see
Please don’t hate me

Then, now, and forever
My love will not end, not ever

Love,
Mom

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

…. a time when many children are being taught that, if their parents disagree with them, their parents are “toxic.” That if parents try to guide them, they are “controlling.” That if parents set limits, they are being “oppressive.”

But almost nobody talks about the other side.

Nobody talks about the sleepless nights. The silent sacrifices. The weight a father and a mother carry when they are trying to prepare a child for a world they know will show no mercy.

Because the world is not a Discord group.

The world is not a classroom where everyone validates your feelings.

The world demands. The world tests. The world does not protect.

And that is exactly why parents try to prepare their children.

There is a huge difference between abuse and guidance. Between rejection and concern. Between control and responsibility.

Parents are not trying to destroy their child. They are trying to protect something the child may not yet fully understand: their own future.

The greatest irony of all this is that the same society that teaches young people to distrust their parents is the same society that will not be there when they fall.

But parents… they remain.

Even after the slammed doors.

Even after the harsh words.

Even after being called ignorant, outdated, or toxic.

Because the true love of a father and a mother does not operate on approval. It operates on commitment.

Maybe the question that needs to be asked is not: “Why don’t my parents agree with me?”

Maybe the more mature question is: “What do they see that I still cannot see?”

[…]

Parents are not perfect. They make mistakes. They are learning too. But most of the time, behind firmness there is fear. Fear of seeing their child suffer. Fear of seeing their child take paths that lead to pain.

And maybe the greatest tragedy of this generation is not the difference of ideas…

But how easily they are cutting ties with the ones who would give their lives for them.

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

On their editorial page […] the views of the Times Editorial Board are clear: “transgender citizens” are just another minority group, similar to, “Black people, Indigenous people and gay people, to name just a few.” In an editorial by the Times Editorial Board last year, the Times railed against President Trump for waging “as direct a campaign against a single, vulnerable minority [“transgender citizens”] as we’ve seen in generations.”

The Times’ news coverage of gender ideology reflects their bias. Most of it reads like a Church of Scientology press release.

Woman Wins Malpractice Suit Over Gender Surgery as a Minor (2/3/2026) - […] No one is “assigned” a sex at birth. That is made-up gender ideology nonsense. And the phrase “now identifies as a woman, an example of a process known as detransitioning” makes the defendant sound like she was returning a pair of shoes that didn’t fit.

Doctors’ Group Endorses Restrictions on Gender-Related Surgery for Minors (2/4/2026) - This article is filled with gender ideology mythology. […] “gender-related surgical treatments” would be more accurately written, “unproven, experimental amputations of healthy body parts”.

Justices Seem Inclined to Allow States to Bar Transgender Athletes - (1/13/2026) - […] Wow. You would think that “biological sex” is a new, controversial concept, and yet the Times is compelled to define it with the “sex assigned at birth” nonsense.

Canada Updates: Police Identify Suspect in Mass Shooting (2/11/2026) - […] If the suspect was “biologically born male”, then the suspect is a man and should be referred to as such. Overwhelmingly, violence of this sort is carried out by men. The Times is lying and insulting all women when they write such fiction.

There are many more articles, but you get the idea. In all of its reporting, the Times uses all the gender ideology made-up lingo, and adopts the gender ideology world view, that changing “gender” is as natural and easy as changing hairstyles.

Laura G #transphobia pittparents.com

[Comment on a poem by a transphobic parent]

I lost my son, and while I now occasionally see him, I still lost him. He still drinks the kool aid and still takes the drugs. My only son, I will never have biological grandchildren. Maybe one day he will decide this is all a lie, maybe one day.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

I am not a parent of a trans-identified child/adult. However, I am a mother of three small children. Please accept an offering of a poem. I don’t have first-hand familiarity with today’s ”trans world” or what many of you have gone through.

This poem is about innocence. I am sure that this-joy giving force is still there in you and your children/adults….. even if it is being covered, buried or even tortured by all sorts of nonsense and horrendous things. I hope you can still feel it. The killers of joy can never succeed.

[...]

To a thief everyone is a thief
The thief would not believe anyone
Is innocent
Not even a child

In compulsive jealousy
He will deny and destroy
Stamp out, silence
That power within

He desecrated and sold
How can others contain
that source of joy he destroys
In himself

But children are abundant
Open
Brimming full
Of a power
foundational to the whole universe

Without which
All values that would be called good
Collapse
like a house of cards

Into an abyss
Destroying
The very foundation
On which they stand

ITT Parents #transphobia pittparents.com

Nina: by trans logic. if it is deadname, then police need to be involved to investigate the person who killed and replaced....

can there be a word more a stab to parents? i do not think so

Vanessa: That's my beef with the whole, "would you rather have a trans child or a dead one?" Well basically this new persona has "Killed" my child as he supposedly no longer exists. Hearing the phrase deadname for the first time was absolutely a stab in the heart.

Nina: the constant suicide threats just demonstrate the abusiveness of the relationship trans offer, eh. And they are ripping off the dead kid or a kid with sex knowledge/safe sex devices from the early aids decades

Mother’s Grim: You have beautifully expressed the fight. It is not David versus Goliath. It is:

Mom versus Deadname.

Behind "deadname" is not anyone's child. With that one word, the child is now belongs to THEM.

Parents with Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

The tears come without warning.

[…]

They are accompanied by the jumble of emotions I carry in a tight knot in my stomach, or the ones that come with migraine intensity pounding mercilessly at the back of my skull.

They come with no discernible sentences, only random words and feelings that tumble through my mind:

Guilt: how could I have done better? I’m his mother. Where did I go wrong?

Helplessness: will I ever not cry daily? I crave, but cannot envision, not experiencing these tears that have become part of my everyday life for the past eight years.

Despair: how can I fix my fractured family, torn apart by the tsunami of gender ideology that slammed into our happy home?

Anxiety: what will happen when he makes the ultimate, catastrophic decision to have his body mutilated, and the imagined magical, yet unattainable cure to the mental health problems he suffers doesn’t manifest itself?

Pain: through addiction to wrong-sex hormones, and his planned surgeries, my child is hurting himself and I am experiencing it in some esoterically generated osmosis.

Turmoil about an unknown future: what do I do when he has the surgery? How can I visit him in the hospital? How can I not? What do I do?

Anger: at every person who has ever affirmed, validated, groomed my son and insisted I am somehow wrong for not doing the same.

Conflict: how can I be true to my conviction not to affirm a delusion while not hurting my son in the process?

Envy: of normal parents who don’t know what estradiol and spironolactone are, or how dangerous those are in a male body… and never will.

Fatigue: the deep mental fatigue that manifests in days of cocooning alone with only mindless Netflix fare and iPhone games to fill the passing hours.

Fear: of the future, of my son’s path leading him into darkness, of how I will keep myself together as the inevitable unfolds.

And the questions with no answers, without even words to form them.

[…]

But the tears will return. And the cycle will loop again.