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Broken Hearted Mom #transphobia #ableist pittparents.com

My son. Brilliant. Not autistic. Same online exposure. He suddenly decided at 19. He's 27 now. I describe him as my bosomed son because he is on an artificial amount of estrogen that was never meant for his body. A host of "medical personnel" are participating in this abuse, anti-hypocratic oath. Even the so-called therapist is not providing therapy, but destructive encouragement. We've spoken all the logic, but this contagion seems to, at least temporarily and just long enough, block one's ability to think with reason and logic. The only thing I know to do now is remain in the wings for the day it all crashes down.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

You see us gathering in our ranks now - weary and wounded but still ready, willing, and able to head directly into battle. See us entering the field:

Grandmas and grandpas whose opinions were disregarded as ‘old fashioned’ and ‘out of touch’ as they attempted again and again to reach out in loving kindness to their precious grandchildren.

Childhood friends who watched in horror as their old friend devolved into someone they couldn’t recognize - only interested in hanging out with other poor deluded souls - leaving good friends in the dust.

Family doctors - the few standing by their oath and refusing to refer a patient they have known since birth - and then watching that young patient pursue physical harm through the oxymoron known as ’affirming care.’

Aunties and Uncles, who, while writing out a birthday card to what seems like an empty hole - never getting a ‘thank you’ or even a ‘hello’ text in return - wondering how to address the card - finally deciding to throw it out and just put cash in an envelope instead.

Siblings who watched their parents dissolve into a messy ball of insecurity as this one sibling pulled down every tradition, every family vacation, every high school prom, every holiday, every joyous memory - as this one sibling sucked all of the air out of the loving family leaving an empty shell of people trying to hold it together in the wake of ‘wokeness.’

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

Last Christmas some of the family were grievously absent. The differences took center stage and obscured the love that had always held us together. Silence dominated where laughter had always resounded. Rejection replaced open arms and acceptance. In my pain, I wonder what happened.

Oh, I know what instigated the avalanche. It wasn’t my grandson’s announcement that he was transgender, though some might think so. He didn’t cause this division. It was the choice of his parents to require affirmation of his revelation. It wasn’t enough to love him and nurture his growth in self-discovery. It wasn’t enough for his mother or her sisters. It wasn’t enough to give him time and encouragement to grow out of his awkward feelings that confuse him and make him so uncomfortable. No, it wasn’t his choice. It was his mother’s, together with his aunts. It was their grown-up, mature decisions to intercept and discard every communication, even every expression of love and acceptance, that didn’t conform to their perception of what it should be.

I can’t wrap my head around it. Since when is a gift given to say, “I love you! You’re important to me! I miss you!” an offensive? How can that be labeled hateful?

Here we are with another lonely Christmas looming ahead. My heart is breaking for the absence of them all! I’m extremely thankful for the compassionate understanding that my sons and their families give me. It’s not that their support isn’t greatly appreciated. Oh, it’s appreciated more than words can express. But it doesn’t remove the sting of their sisters’ rejection. Only my daughters can remove this pain. Only God can heal it.

Parents With Inconvenient Truths about Trans #transphobia pittparents.com

Dear Sir or Madam:

I will be brief. My daughter, who suffers from the delusion that she can change her sex, was harmed by her local school. She was also harmed by so-called Child Protective Services in New Jersey when they intervened and came to our home, referring to our daughter by the made-up name she goes by at school. I was never informed that my daughter was going by a name other than her legal one.

Teachers and school administration allowed this to happen. When she was about to graduate, the school permitted, and possibly even encouraged, her and others to dress in clothes typical for the opposite gender at the graduation ceremony. And I was asked, via email, to purchase a tuxedo for my daughter. I refused. My daughter attended the celebration in a tuxedo, against our wishes.

The harm this has caused me and my husband is difficult to express