A man and a bear are the same
the " man vs bear " trend is useless when you decide to choose the bear then goes back to sleep with the man .
True wisdom is to choose none, because it is the passive way of thinking. Also you have to realise that men and bears are the same.
Both are predatory , both are dangerous to be around, both should be regarded as objects to pet and have fun with and to admire their aesthetic appearance from a distance without true connection ( I know it is hard but should be the goal ). Both should be treated as a natural crisis. ( If you are not offended by the bear intention/nature to prey on the human race ... You should also not be so offended when a man says or does a misogynistic behaviour to the woman race, you should just laugh and move on ... Or treat it like a documentary nat geo show).
And for the part of regarding men as a natural crisis ... Don't try to get close to them, date them , marry them or sleeping with them or having them as close friends, or inviting them to your territory, don't even try to irritate them or tease them ( you will not do this with a bear , right? ... So why doing so with men ? ) ...
Stop humanising men .... by giving them attention good or bad and by having an expectation from them you are treating them as individuals not as a natural problem , I know it is hard to complete dehumanise them , because they are humans after all and they came from a woman's whom , Hey but wait a minute, we are humans too but men keep treating us as subhumans, hating us and don't give a damn about our humanity so why we should care about theirs ?