[Serious] How did they convince women that wage slavery = empowerment?

Your average wage-slave woman:

>Wake up at 6am for your 8-5 job
>Groom and have breakfast until 7am
>Leave house at 7am for overcrowded public transport or crowded highway system, spending an hour there to get to work

>tfw 2 hours of your life are spent towards work without getting paid yet

>Arrive at 8am
>Start work in an intensively micro-managed office environment, where you have little say in what you can do
>Boss pulls you in to tell you that you didn't meet your targets this week and discusses with you how he can maximize your productivity
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>Hour lunch at 11am, had no time to cook so you get fast food.
>Back to work at 12pm until 5pm.
>Arrive home from work at 6pm
>Degroom, shower and eat a meal.
>Still do all the cleaning for your house because that didn't go away.
>It's now 9pm, you have just enough time to watch brain mush on Netflix until you go to sleep for work tomorrow.

>You're a strong, independent woman because you earn a salary and can buy consumer goods to numb the pain, even though your whole life revolves around your employer and they control you like cattle.

A housewife living with her husband does literally a fraction of the labour, and is probably living a richer life as a result, where she can pursue her hobbies or interests and not have to give her time away to some soul-less corporation. For most of history, women controlled their household. They decided what needed to be bought, how the children should be raised, it was essentially her own little kingdom.

For some reason, they have been convinced that it's better to obey an employer than obey a husband, even though the employer gives no shit about your freedom and your well-being, just on making sure you're as productive as possible to do the job. In an effort to lower the price of labour, they started encouraging women to enter the work force en masse.

How did they convince women that a live of wage slavery is a dignified life?

Even men don't like wage slavery, there has been a lot of fighting and killing that has gone on between labour unions and employers since the 1800s. Men seem to be aware of the bad deal they are getting from this, but women seem completely oblivious to it as long as you call it empowerment.